Would you rather your boyfriend be into Playboy or hentai?

My boyfriend is super into hentai, and I don't know how to feel about it. On the one hand, he's not lusting after other women. On the other hand, he's getting turned on by a cartoon. And I still feel like I'm being compared because Playboy girls might be altered physically, but their beauty could possibly be attained by plastic surgery. I could never look like a hentai girl because they're specifically drawn to be fantasy women and are impossible to look like in real life.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Think of it this way. There are plenty of men that we women find attractive. For example, I'm like, in love with Ryan Reynolds. He's ripped and has a gorgeous body. None of the men I have been with have that body, and I found every single on of them attractive. I still find men without that body attractive.

    Of course he finds those bodies attractive, they are picked out, scouted, designed, and marketed to be pure fantasy. However, it absolutely does not diminish any of the beauty you have.

    Men like your body because of who it belongs to. Your boyfriend digs your personality, your humor, your everything, and because of that, he digs your body, because its YOURS.

    I highly doubt you need plastic surgery. I know how you feel, it would make life a lot easier, but really, it wouldnt. Because once you fix one thing, you will find another. Its all too common. Its best to just abstain.

    Ill bet there are plenty of things you can do that those waif girls cannot do.

    Does your man tell you how beautiful you are or how much he digs you?

    • No, he doesn't normally tell me those things. Maybe every once in awhile, on special occasions.

    • I say, you tell him how much you like it and you want to hear more. tell him its important. If he can't do that, they he doesn't make a good boyfriend. You deserve to hear it all the time.

  • My 7th evil ex boyfriend watched hentai too lol. I think its kinda lame actually but not as lame as his ducky underwear. However Playboy in my opinion is worse because at least hentai has a plot lol

    • Do YOU watch hentai?

    • no

  • Hentai bc they aren't real, sure the playboy girls aren't either (fake tits & ass) but hentai is better because they are literal cartoons

Most Helpful Guys

  • just let him have his thing even tho hentai is weird as f***. A cartoon could never get me off. And girls think too much into a guy watching p*rn. We are not compareing our girls to the girls in the p*rn. We are watching it for enterainment and because we want to rub one out. Not because that's what we wish our girlfriend was like.

  • It doesn't matter WHAT kind of p*rn he's into, so long as he is not neglecting you because of it.

    If he's neglecting you, then it doesn't matter what p*rn he's into. He's in the wrong. Period.

    And he needs to change, or you dump him.

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  • Hentai is a little odd if you ask me. I mean... there are worse things he could be into.

    He should be into you.

    • Yeah, I wish, lol

    • Well that's lame. You're an attractive girl. Your boyfriend sounds like a tool.

    • You're too sweet.

  • I'd prefer him to be into hentai :)

    • Isn't hentai the girls with penises?

    • hentai is anime and manga p*rn :) there is a specific genre of hentai what involves girls with penises, yes :D

  • Hentai freaks me out! I say cheers to Playboy!

  • What is hentai?

  • Rather be into hentai

  • Soothe his sexual needs every time and he'd never have to turn to hentai

  • As long as it's not interfering with your sex life, I don't see a problem with it. Honestly, I don't know why everyone is so weirded out by hentai, erotic art has been around since the dawn of man...

    • Eh, it kind of interferes. He spends more time with hentai than with me.

    • That's a problem and you need to either fix it or drop it.

    • Yeah, in that case it's definitely a problem. Tell him to get that sh*t in check or you're gone. No reason for him to spend his time with cartoon chicks when he's got himself a good lookin' girlfriend ;)