My new boyfriend has a big penis, if it doesn't work out will that mean my vagina is stretched out/loose?

[Anonymous]

I have been dating a new boyfriend for a couple of months and we recently started to have sex. He is well endowed and I actually feel good about this relationship but we have had to work for him to enter me because I am quite tight. Out of curiosity, if for some reason this didn't work out, would my vagina be stretched/looser with someone else?

[Anonymous]

As long as it's fit so far it probably won't keep stretching. It probably won't be as tight when some new guy that's not endowed as much enters you. Since your old enough to have had other lovers, what's been your experiences in the past? If it's fit every guy so far then there should be no problem. However, you probably won't be tight a virgin since those days are history.

[Asker]

I've only had sex with 3 other guys and he is definitely the biggest. I don't remember any of this type of experience before. We had to try 2 other times before we were able to get it to fit on the third time (with lots of lube too). He also first used up to 3 fingers to "prepare me"! So I def hope this relationship works out;) - so much work already we have put in;) He's actually a very happy camper.

[Opinion Owner]

I hope it works out for you too especially like you said.. you've already put so much into it. If you've only had sex with 3 other guys then that's not many. But I see what you mean about him being your biggest. I've heard before that girls worry about their vaginas stretching when they have sex with a big guy for awhile and then worrying when they start having sex with some new "smaller" boyfriend, especially when they're still in their teens. But that was probably good experience or them.

[gotc147]

The vaginal walls are supposed to be able to stretch, if it is possible for them to permently become looser I assume it would take quite a bit of doing and even if they did it likely wouldn't be noticable if you were to meet someone else since they've never "had you" before.

An answer from a girl would be more informed.

[LishaJones]

Your vagina will not be stretched or loosened It has the ability to go back to its regular give size.think of it this way when I women gives birth.her vagina stretches to 10cm.

and it goes back to normal.so.the same would be for you.

Plus there are exercises called Kegels.that you can do. It tights the liner of your vagina walls.LOOK IT UP

[smith2267]

Kegels don't actually shrink your vag back to original size. They just make the muscles in there stronger. So basically you can grip him tight, even though your vag is loose. Which amounts to feeling like you have a tight one.

[jaclynreine]

while doing it.ofcourse YES.but, by the time that you're done.it would come vack to the same way it was before you even had sex with him.at the same time.it could also stretch a bit but just a bit, not totally & surely not that much.

[Simple-Simonette]

I've had 3 children, you can't get any bigger than that. My vagina is as tight as a virgin's.

How? Kegel exercises - look it up.

[Luxurious]

...as tight as a virgin's? Yeah right

[Simple-Simonette]

Your vaginal walls are made of solid muscle. When you exercise your muscles, they get stronger and stay elastic. Seriously, what's the point in exaggerating? It's not like anyone is going to get any use from my vagina besides my husband.

[Romeo0071234]

Yeah I agree.. no need to worry so much. The vagina will bounce back to its normal state or close.. you have to really be fucking around or doing some extreme stretching to ruin the tightness to the point of no return.

[tarsometa]

hahahah don't worry unless you are a porn actor or have sex every day it will take a long time for that to happend and I mean a lot

[Anonymous]

well your vagina might b loose for a while. but it will eventually go back to its original size.