Bad Blowjob experience, with a f***buddy will he get over it?

[Anonymous]

Alright, I'm in college and I'm kind of seeing this guy in a strictly sexual way. I've given him a blow job 3 or 4 times now and usually I get good feedback, I've swallowed before and its no problem usually. Just recently (20 min ago) though, I had given him a blow job after teasing him a little too long and when he finished he grabbed me by my hair and pushed my head down to force me to swallow (which I didn't expect, and his come is bitter) I avoided throwing up on him, and managed to turn to the floor and spit out his come and a little bit of throw up, then cleaned it up. This is going to sound bad, but he usually gets what he wants from me, (BJ's anal, sex, beer) and this is really the first mess up on my part, other than leaving him with a hard-on one night. I really don't want to find a new boytoy and I'm just curious as to if he'll get over it. We had plans for tomorrow night, and I would really like to keep them. So guys who have ever had a f***buddy, would you keep me around if you were in his shoes?

[cornflake420]

Sounds like he's kinda taking advantage of you. Do you like him in a way for what he does to you?And that sucks when a guy is left with a hard on, been there before when the girl didn't make me cum. But he probs shouldn't have done that, like push your head down. Just tell him you don't like that and just let you do what you do. I'd stay around with you, it's just a mistake I would have already gotten over it

[Asker]

I usually like the hair pulling thing. I'm kind of into being dominated, but I don't like it when it goes to far, like pushing my head down. I don't like him in a serious relationship way, its strictly sexual. I left him with a hard on the night before because he said it didn't matter if he got what he wanted or not that night. I said okay then, try again tomorrow and left. I've just never thrown up before and don't know what to expect tomorrow or how to react.

[cornflake420]

Well everyone likes different things and there's no problem with that. I gotcha that's understandable now so I hope everything works out between the 2 of you. Just tell him what you like and that you're not comfortable with him pushing your head down

[Asker]

I don't think I need to tell him that, I'm sure he figured that out on his own. Lol.

[cornflake420]

hahaha from what happened last time I guess you're right hehe

[christian2724]

Are you serious? He sounds like an asshole. And you sound like a beat down woman. Dump him. You're a girl in your 20s, you're in high demand. You'll run through 5 guys before he can get another girl.

Give me a message if you're in CA, LOL and I'll show you a better experience.

[Asker]

I'm sure I will go through 5 guys before he can get another girl. There aren't many on my campus. I'm in Texas, lol. I just don't want a serious relationship and we have a mutual agreement that he understands, I don't wanna end up with someone who will get attached. Just someone I can have fun with when I want without consequences or public scenes.

[christian2724]

well he's a douche. Find someone else. You'll get all the sex you want without being treated like trash

[Asker]

If I can find someone who gets the strictly sexual thing, I just might drop him. Thanks for the respect though, considering I'm acting like trash for one guy. :)

[katiesmuff]

I can't imagine that you couldn't find just about any boytoy you wanted, so why put up with crap like this from this guy.

[katiesmuff]

Good Girl! Hundreds of other penises out there that would love to have you sucking on them. Some of them come with really nice guys attached that make great FWB's

[ncsquirll99]

um.. you didn't mess up at all. he should never force you down! you did perfect... what do you get in return?

[Asker]

I'm shocked I managed to turn before throwing up on him. I actually love giving blowjobs, I didn't get anything in return tonight. Just what happens, happens. I left right after, I was a little embarrassed, even though he got up laughed about it and apologized. He was going to clean it up but I grabbed the rag from him before he could. Then I told him I'm not swallowing for him unless I'm drunk, he didn't know his come was bitter (Beer/Bread) Ugh. I think I'm over-reacting.

[ncsquirll99]

no. you sound awesome. though telling him his come is bitter is alittle harsh but understandable. I just don't see what is exactly in it for you. but if you love giving bjs that would be a first for me. if your ever in the area you are welcome to give. don't worry I don't get attached. but nah you have nothing to worry about if it doesn't bother you.

[Asker]

I didn't say it to offend him, just a did you know your come is bitter because you drink so damn much. (I party with him a lot) Beer and Bread make it bitter, fruits and veggies make it sweet. Lmao. Thanks for the offer? I'm usually not one to make things awkward after things like that happen, just I've heard of guys being turned off to BJs from a girl because of incidents like that. Like I said this is a first for me, and this FWB thing we have going won't work for me if I can't suck his d***. :/

[ncsquirll99]

:/ damn you really have to understand that just because you have a FWB thing going on DOES NOT mean you have to do everything. I understand you enjoy giving head so I am by no means telling you that you should stop. However, understand that if you ever wanted you could stop giving them and just do other stuff. he can find someone else to make vomit. He just doesn't seem worth it but I understand it is your call and you like it. That incident is the last thing to worry about reputation wise

[tallnhungjoe]

Why should he leave... you blow him, he nuts in your ass... what more could a guy want? Just tell him not to be so damn rough and you'll promise not to puke in his crotch... if he keeps doing crap like that, you need to move on.

Joe

[dasquirrel]

You go girl, find your fine ass self a real man! If your ever in northern az, hit me up. We'll hang out and have some fun.

[dasquirrel]

Can I just say Texas girls are cute and sexy, even more so when they say ya'll. Find it so sexy. It's obvious what he likes sexually. Just tell him what you like and what the limit is. If he dose get it, find someone else.

[Asker]

I'm trying to keep my boytoy, it's kind of difficult to find guys here who won't get too attached, keep it out of public, and know when to back off if I'm flirting with someone else. Lmao, I don't even notice when I say "y'all" until someone points it out.. we have a lot of people on campus from different areas in the united states speaking our language here. :)

[dasquirrel]

I'm sure everything will be okay, kinda strange you can't find a guy who will just f*** with no strings. But I'm sure everything will be okay.

[Asker]

Idk, some of you get a little to jealous when I flirt with someone who isn't you. He's one of the few guys that doesn't d***-measure or wanna "woop his ass" if I talk to another guy at a bar or something. Then there are the ones who feel a relationship should move to the next level, and for some reason I'm tired of dealing with being on a leash when it comes to having a boyfriend but maybe its just the guys I've dated. Who knows?

[dasquirrel]

Yeah, maybe it's like the movie No Strings

[Asker]

Havent seen it, I'm not into chick-flicks. Lol.

[dasquirrel]

Awesome, I didn't either just saw enough previews to understand the story line

[Leeggg]

yeah but in No Strings Attached he was f***ing Natalie Portman, so who wouldn't want a bit more :P