I think you'll find that most women don't want to wait until marriage to have sex. However, I'm sure the ones that are waiting would love it if their husband was doing the same. It would be cool to learn everything together, etc.
Anyway, I would think that if the girl really cares about you she'd be willing to wait.
The two women I have been in relationships with were definitely part of your first category. Interestingly enough though, they still wanted to get married and commit themselves to one guy. Is there a reason why women (from your point of view) want to have sex before marriage other than under the guise of wanting to gain experience? Like you said, wouldn't it be fun to learn everything together? Besides, everyone likes sex in different ways. Why not just learn one time with your husband?
Hmm. I don't think it's about wanting to gain experience, necessarily. I think a lot of women are just embracing their sexuality these days and that traditional idea is getting less common (but is by no means undesirable/etc).
If I had the choice, I would choose a virgin, but it honestly wouldn't be a big deal if he wasn't. I know there are a lot of virgin girls who want a guy with experience, but seriously, everyone has to start from the beginning, and it's not like you can't learn.
I personally think that learning together would be one of the funnest parts. Besides, why wouldn't you just want to learn what your spouse likes once instead of practicing with other people and then finding out what you're "good at" does nothing for your wife/husband?
i completely agree with you=)
I am waiting like that too. To have sex after marriage. And I hope my husband to be a virgin as well :) . Cause I am staying as a virgin for my husband so can't he be ?
Girls who are waiting usually (though not always) prefer a guy who has waited.
Girls who are not virgins soon fine virgin males annoying. Young women (and virgins) tend to be up for being patient while a guy learns what he's doing, older experienced women usually can't be bothered.
Would you mind clarifying "annoying"? Do you mean in conversation or in bed?
In bed, and also in how they initiate.
But if I'm waiting till marriage to have sex then I can be annoying in bed because I won't be in one till I'm married, right?
Probably. He is most likely to not notice that they aren't having sex anymore after marriage.
Haha sorry but I think I'd have to disagree on that one. Thanks for the feedback though :)
You're disagreeing because you haven't been married. This is _definitely_ something to be aware of. There are plenty of married couples having tons of sex, and plenty having very little. Women with low libidos will definitely prefer virgins (though they'll say they respect their values, and believe that's why). Also, other guys will be avoiding those girls, which increases the chance you end up with one.
I'm interested to hear where you got the information necessary to say "will definitely prefer virgins". I'm not saying it isn't valid with some women, but I think it's incredibly presumptuous of you to make that kind of statement is such absolutes. Unless of course you've have the pleasure of meeting every young, unmarried woman on the planet that is.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It would be a romantic idea I guess if I were waiting for marriage, but since I'm not I would prefer a guy that knows how to handle me.
I will say I am a virgin and I'm in my 18s and I want a virgin wife I think that virgins are committed and love more and do anything to keep u happy so I am also willing to wait until I get married.
i don't care. if he is, great. if he isn't, that's OK too
but I think it's pretty cool if he waited
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