The two women I have been in relationships with were definitely part of your first category. Interestingly enough though, they still wanted to get married and commit themselves to one guy. Is there a reason why women (from your point of view) want to have sex before marriage other than under the guise of wanting to gain experience? Like you said, wouldn't it be fun to learn everything together? Besides, everyone likes sex in different ways. Why not just learn one time with your husband?
Hmm. I don't think it's about wanting to gain experience, necessarily. I think a lot of women are just embracing their sexuality these days and that traditional idea is getting less common (but is by no means undesirable/etc).
I personally think that learning together would be one of the funnest parts. Besides, why wouldn't you just want to learn what your spouse likes once instead of practicing with other people and then finding out what you're "good at" does nothing for your wife/husband?
i completely agree with you=)
Would you mind clarifying "annoying"? Do you mean in conversation or in bed?
In bed, and also in how they initiate.
But if I'm waiting till marriage to have sex then I can be annoying in bed because I won't be in one till I'm married, right?
Haha sorry but I think I'd have to disagree on that one. Thanks for the feedback though :)
You're disagreeing because you haven't been married. This is _definitely_ something to be aware of. There are plenty of married couples having tons of sex, and plenty having very little. Women with low libidos will definitely prefer virgins (though they'll say they respect their values, and believe that's why). Also, other guys will be avoiding those girls, which increases the chance you end up with one.
I'm interested to hear where you got the information necessary to say "will definitely prefer virgins". I'm not saying it isn't valid with some women, but I think it's incredibly presumptuous of you to make that kind of statement is such absolutes. Unless of course you've have the pleasure of meeting every young, unmarried woman on the planet that is.
You took one part of his sentence but failed to see the "Women with low libidos" part before it. For the most part I agree with his statement because it makes sense. They don't want to feel pressured into sex. The Pandora's box is when that guy gets his first taste of sex.
Oh no, I read the whole statement, and I can see where that would make sense. I just don't necessarily agree. Both women I've been with knew I was a virgin and had anything BUT low libidos. In conclusion, I'm not saying you're wrong. It just comes across as a pretty broad sweeping assumption.
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