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He wanted to fist my vag and my butt?

it was kinda gross he kept saying he wanted to fist my butt. I didn't even think that was possible and that really grossed me out considering the fact that anytime a guy tried to shove his d*ck in my butt it hurt like hell! so that freaked me out. I've never been fisted before but I could just imagine how tore up I would be..after I said no to fisting my butt he said can I finger it then? is this dude a freak or what!?!
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ok this is f***ing weird. I just found out that he's a VIRGIN..wtf
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  • He definitely approached you the wrong way about this. I am interested in this and have been working on having it happen with my wife (vaginally not anally) for a couple of months. It's something both partners need to be into in order for it to work and be safe.

    If it is something that you are uncomfortable with then don't do it. If your body is relaxed and prepared for it, you won't get torn up or injured but if you are tense and uneasy then you're more likely to get hurt. This is a niche fetish that has taken on a life of its own on the internet since it's not able to be shown in mainstream p**n. Some people are attracted to the "freaky factor" while others, and I count my self in this category, are interested in pushing the body's limits and exploring the full range of sensations and experiences that you can have. Many people say that this can be the most powerful experience that you can have emotionally and physically but it's not for everyone.

    As for this guy, I'd tell him, in no uncertain terms, that you're not interested in it and he needs to calm down.

  • It is definitely a kinky fetish act. It is entirely possible to double-fist a p**** or the ass. It takes a lot of careful stretching and a lot of lube. If you want to check it out before you try it, there are several pron tube-sites that have free videos of fisting and double-fisting either hole. If you get turned on bey what you see, maybe you should consider trying it. Just make sure he will go easy and listen to you. Also have a "safe word" like pickle or wrench that means STOP. A safe word is a word that does not fit into sexual vocabulary, making itself obvious.) If on the other hand, you are horrified, just tell him no. They are your holes, you make the decision. If you say "no" now, but change your mind later, that is perfectly fine too. There is nothing wrong with being really kinky, or being into fetishes. Just do what makes you feel good.

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  • okay this is the worst way to go on saying that you want to do something with someone but at the same time, he was comfortable with you to tell his fantasy to you. how long have you been dating for and how old are you two? while I think it would hurt like hell to fist someones butt, and not to mention turn your vag into a hallway, it's something he's interested in. he has no experience whatsoever so I think he's living in the fantasy of p*rn and you need to break it to him that in the real world, not all girls are kinky sex dominatrixs that do anything and everything. and if you two haven't had sex yet with each other, then you need to gradually work you way up to things you like with each other.

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  • He's into into fisting, big deal. If you're not, say so and move on.

    Women who can't handle fetishes, however...let's just say I couldn't date one.

  • He watches WAAAY too much p*rn, screwed that motherf***er up

    • Totally Agreed!

  • haha maybe he figures you'll give up anal thinking it's better than having his whole fist jammed up there? Could be a genius move.

    • why would he want his hands in there?

    • "Can I put my hand inside your butt?" "eww, hell no, that will hurt like hell!" "okay, how about just my penis then?"

    • Yeah, he's kinda freaky.

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  • he's got some balls. fisting is like a taboo that people may want but even if they did they would never admit. I don't know. He's probably not a freak, but if that continues then he's probably nuts

  • some guys are like that

  • He's been watching a lot of p*rn and is looking to try everything he's seen in the p*rn movies. Try to curb your language if you act like that around people they tend to label you as having low class

  • Very bold in asking that, I like fisting myself but some girls like it some girls don't some have the anatomy for it some don't always be open to new sexual opportunities new things add flavor but have ti agree the way he approached this is rather poor

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