I'd avoid squeezing - but have a good firm hold. When I was younger and giving handjobs I never knew how much pressure I was supposed to apply and I generally did it too softly and they usually ended up asking me to do it harder.
But don't have it in a death grip either.
Firm, but not too tight if you get me.
Maybe vary your grip throughout it - I tend to start off with a few firm strokes over the length and then be gentle for a bit, then firmer again. Vary pace as well - a lot of girls think a hundred pumps an minute constitutes a good hand job - it doesn't. However, when I say vary - I don't mean change all the time, just every now and then, other wise it can get frustrating and annoying.
Pay attention to the head and the vein underneath - I find those are the spots that count the most. So alternate touching the whole shaft with every now and then swiping your thumb over the slit on the head, or around it. And maybe angle you hand, so when you're moving your hand up and down, your fingertips are on the underside every now and then to give more pressure.
But every guy likes different things, maybe the hold you were using was just a little too tight for him, or he was too dry - if you used to lube, or some of his pre-cum less friction might make that grip better. But yeah - avoid squeezing mostly - I've never heard any guy ask for that. I doubt it hurts, but I don't think it's where the pleasure is if you get me.
thankyou :)) very helpful. what do you mean by the vein underneath? what's that lol.. and how often do guys pre-cum? do they always?
Some guys have a really prominent looking 'vein' underneath when hard - though that's not what it is. Some it isn't so obvious but it's still there - and I've found that a lot of guys enjoy it when that's touched. Essentially it's just on the uderside of the penis, near the base. Pre-cum is like a natural lubricant/acid neturalizer, that guys produce, it's not like ejaculation. I'm pretty sure all guys have it - but some produce more than others, it's just a small amount of clear liquid.
wow sounds amazing...would love a handjob from you lol
Lots of guys are different. Mostly depends on their individual sensitivity. There's other guys saying don't worry about the shaft and only focus on the head, avoid the balls, don't squeeze it.. I'd personally disagree with all of those, but I'm less sensitive than your average guy.
Remember that d***s are pretty solid, so squeezing it isn't going to hurt it. As long as you're not squeezing as hard as you possibly can.
My personal preference would be wet (lube or spit), squeezing reasonably tight and fast up and down the shaft. Keep in mind though, most guys do the same thing to themselves on a daily basis, so no matter how good you think your doing it a handjob is still a handjob. You won't even be able to match the quality of the guy having a wank cause the guy knows what he wants best. How do guys like a handjob? With a set of lips wrapped around the head..
I saw your other answer...lots of guys don't want their balls touched...and I am one of them...I love hjs tho...start off dry...can always add lube if needed for comfort or to speed things up...the spot that counts is on the top of the head...so don't need to rub the whole shaft ..basically just head...and rubbing, not squeezing is the way to go...
the head? what do I do to that haha.. but does squeezing hurt? or just doesn't feel good?
I don't know if squeezing would hurt but it's the up-and-down rubbing that will finally milk us out...in other words squeezing doesn't work at best...and might not feel good...
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!depends... I generally like about as much tension as a gentle handshake and more focus on the base of my penis because my head is too sensitive
whatever you do...give the balls lots of ATTENTION..for some reason most girls ignore the balls and I don't know why!
probably because most girls don't know what to do with them? what do you do!? I've tried, and I feel weird just rubbing them, because you have to be gentle. do guys like it when you caress them? ( like gently tickling them )
exactlyjust rub them slowly and move em around in your hand gently cause they are very sensitive..and if your OK with it get down there and lick them while your jerking him off at the same time
Ok, the guy above you said:dont touch the balls and now you say:touch them?! :) HOw the hell should a girl know what to do? :))
Stimulate the frenulum. That's where the most pleasure is link
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