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Do men have rape fantasies?

It's been said many women have rape fantasies. But what about men, do they fantasize about being raped or vice versa, raping someone?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Dude , you are a potential rapist and for the sake of some woman who could permanently be caught in the hell loop of trauma, you got to review why you find force sex hot. Why do you hate woman (misogyny) why the cruel need for domination. check this out, two men decided for whatever reason that my body was there to violate. The result? I am constantly in fear of 50% of the population, a huge part of my sexuality has been torn to shreds, and i have endless terror loops in my memory (thank you ptsd). why because two men had thought maybe along the line of yours. and they acted on them

  • I do as a girl and I am happy my SO is so dominant in bed. So we match very well considering our sexual turn ons.

    Its not bad at all when its during sex and consensual. I mean I would never want to be raped by a stranger even if the fantasy turns me on. In real life I now for sure it will do the opposite.

  • i have rape fantasies about being raped, not being the rapist.

    but unfortunately, I think most guys fantasize about DOMINANT women.. :/

Most Helpful Guys

  • "Real" men never even think of raping someone,,,,,,,,,,,
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    because (in my perspective) it is a very huge turn-off if the woman is reluctant or doesn't want to go physical with you.
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    even a 'simple' intercourse can be regarded as "RAPE" if she is doing that all against her will.

  • If by rape, you mean forced sex where the female is reluctant or doesn't want to, then yes that's hot. I don't do that often however.

    But I never fantasize about rape where the woman is beaten senseless. That's horrible.

    Like that scene with Monica belluci in irreversible.

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  • NO! No, no, no, no, NO! D:

  • recent question made me think about this. I would never do something like this. But I do think about getting a sort of revenge against a girl from way back as an adolescent. more like a grudge f*** maybe. hard to explain.

  • One of my exes is like that ewww

  • Not me.

  • It feels wrong, so no.

    But I do watch forced hentai from time to time, so eh.
    Then again, that's not "real".

  • Never thought about "rape" when fantasizing before.

  • I have never wanted (even remotely) to rape someone...now...female raping me? under the right circumstances...well...isn't that what femdom is?

  • i've never wanted to simulate a rape. rape makes me really uncomfortable

  • Negative. Nothing remotely attractive about non-consensual sex for me.

  • there are some that do

  • No, not at all. That would be weird and creepy

  • I don't. There are guys that do though.

  • Yes its really hot

  • Never crossed my mind

  • It's definitely one of my biggest fantasies

  • Yeah definitely but I'm the one getting raped - and it's more like Rough Forced Sex, not like the real act but a fantasy. And I know it's very common among men and women. A guy can be nice and say no way that's sick, but it's not sick, it's more BDSM related than anything real world.

  • Nah, not for me. It just seems violent.

  • Yes im sure most me just like myself have the idea of rape. In their heads as a true turn on. the only trick is finding a woman that finds pleasure in this activity.

  • Yes, many of my fantasies are like that. But dot worry, i dont want to act upon it, things in the realm of the mind works differently, in real life i hate rape and rapists, im very pacific person.

    I think this fantasies are a mix of inner violence and sex drive. Maybe they are the result of me being shy and socially awkard and desiring to stop being so powerless... Maybe i will quit having these fantasies after i get to lose my virginity.

    • I am basically in the same about.

  • I mean, the answer is yes. But 1) They will never and ought never admit it. 2) They don't, in any way, actually want to be raped. (Although, you could probably get away with it because it's impossible to prove. Just sneak in at night, and have a surprise sex moment with someone who isn't interested in you. Use a knife or something so he can't just push you off.)

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