My gay guy friend and I make out a lot, do any other gay guys share this with a straight female friend too?

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My gay guy friend I know is gay , he's had bfs only in his life, he's 24 and I'm gonna be 20 later this year, and he's been my rock with problems with my family and we are best friends, I love him to death but not in a romantic way, he's hot but I don't have romantic feelings for him in that way,   but recently we were in his room laying in bed looking at the ceiling talking about how funny things are, about finding love etc and  then I made a sily comment and I was laughing and he was tickling me and was over me on the bed...and then all of a sudden he just stopped and he started to lay on top me and I said " you hippo get off lol" he just kissed me and I was in shock as my lips were moving and we started making out, we f***ing made out for 2 hrs and touched me down there...and then after he got up and we went and drank water and we started grining and now we have makeout sessions like idk, like we should be asking questions about why this is happening but we are nopt amnd I was wondering if any other gay men have a relationship like this with a straight female friend or have you ever made out with a straigh woman?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My personal opinion. I have a gay friend. He is amazing. Listens. Kisses and hugs. Admitted that he has had best friends as girls before, but not like our relationship! Could it be that because you are each others (rock) that u are 100% comfortable with whatever is being done between the both of you? That he is merely touching you because he does care for you.. that all he wants to see u do his be happy and have pleasure because your love is so strong. No commitment.. no judging. Just the fact that you are such a beautiful person inside and out that he just wants to show you and you show him? I mean you can be an adult and move forward. Not feel like *every time* this will happen.. but when you have a connection you just go with it? I'm just being honest here that he can love you so much and you him that all you want is to full fill that other person and that's it. <3

kgrrl2323 · Accepted Answer

well my gay friend likes my boobs. he is always touching them. he says he's facinated with my boobies. he says that they are perfect and when I asked him about his boobie obsession even tho he's clearly gay, he just says that there's just something about boobies that he likes. I always thought that gay guys are repulsed at female anatomy but I guess not all are. but in your case, I think he might be bi not gay. maybe he's curious about girls because he's never been with one. and he trusts you in maybe seeing if it's something he's interested in. you should talk to him about it and see what he says.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I mean no offence against your friend here but I know a gay guy that makes out with girls just because he's so desperate he will make out with anyone

that's the only time I've heard of a gay guy getting with straight girls, I'm not sure what your situation is!

TheAnswerer · Accepted Answer

By definition, a gay person has no sexual interest in females. In fact, studies confirm that homosexual individuals do not respond to the pheromones of the opposite gender (though this is a chicken and egg issue. Does this cause homosexuality or does homosexuality cause this?)

Anyways, as I was saying, if he could make out with you for two hours, I think he's bisexual, in which case, it is normal for such a thing to have happened. After all, you two are best friends, and there's only a small step between "best friends" and a "couple", which you guys seem to have taken.

Belgie · Accepted Answer

He's not gay. He's bisexual.

A gay guy would not make out with a girl and touch her down there. It just wouldn't happen.

Consider that he's bisexual, and consider that he might be acting like this because he likes you, but doesn't know how to deal with it yet.

Butterfly_kisses09 · Answer

Obviously he's not gay then, bi maybe? But definitely not gay, so I would say most gay men only do sexual stuff with other men...just a thought.

l-hedoniste · Answer

"we should be asking questions about why this is happening"

Why? I have never, ever been tempted to ask after a makeout session, "Why is this happening?" If anything is likely to break the spell, that is. Let it come when it comes, and go when it goes.

moaterboat · Answer

I'm gonna have to remember that trick.

hALLDAY · Answer

lol he's not gay, maybe bi-sexual. This is also why I don't like when girls say they have a lot of male friends, most of them have ulterior motives.

Dom163 · Answer

Bisexual

Anonymous · Answer

I haven't, but I know a gay guy who likes to kiss girls. I've also heard that some gay guys sleep with girls when  its available, but fantasize about guys while doing it.  I have no idea.  I wouldn't fall for him, though.

Anonymous · Answer

maybe he's  bi

My gay guy friend and I make out a lot, do any other gay guys share this with a straight female friend too?

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