Guy friend accidentally touched my boob three times while playing Marco Polo, was it really an accident?

[Anonymous]

A group of five or six of my friends and I all went over to one of my guy friends houses and we decided to go in his pool. None of us had bathing suits so the girls were in bras annd underwear while the guys were in their short. We decided to play Marco Polo, and when my guy friend was it, three times when he tagged me, he "accidentally" touched my boob. Do you think it was actually an accident?

[Anonymous]

Hmm, my best friend did this to me too in middle school. The first time it was an accident, but the second time he did it on purpose. I don't think that shows much respect. I stopped talking to him immediately and gave him the silent treatment for a whole year. We started talking again but he was really really sorry. Everyday he felt really bad what he had done. It's OK if he likes you and you like him but he wasn't very respectful.

[Asker]

I feel like even if he did do it on purpose, he was just kidding around, cause he is pretty much the sweetest guy I know and after the first time, I playfully made fun of him a little bit and we were all laughing. He kept blushing and saying sorry. It took me like fifteen minutes to convince him that I wasn't mad at him.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes that's how it was with my friend too. I'm not someone that takes things too seriously but he should have known better than to cross that line a third time, because I think it was actually three times on different days. It made me feel bad even though I hid it the second time. He apologized too but since I was laughing he didn't take it as a serious thing and felt I would allow it to happen again. I think that's what hurt me and I felt taken advantage of.

[Asker]

I will let him know imediately if he does anything that makes me feel uncomfortable, but at this point it is not anything that bothers me in any way.

[Opinion Owner]

Okie.

[Anonymous]

Once I could believe was an accident but if he did it three times he was feeling attracted to your breasts and doing that on purpose for sure. Now you just need to decide if you like him and are comfortable with it or if you should distance yourself from him and avoid similar situations with him in the future. Trust me, a guy notices when his hand touches a boob lol.

[Asker]

Well I decided a couple of months ago that I liked him, I just never knew if he liked me or not so I never said anything to him.

[Opinion Owner]

He is for sure attracted to your body, it's your judgement on whether he likes you for more than that .

[hALLDAY]

Was it more of a "grab" or just a "touch"? If it was the later, then his eyes probably were closed and he wasn't doing it on purpose.

[Asker]

just a touch

[Leeggg]

His eyes are closed, his hands would have been extended at boob height, it was an accident.

[Asker]

The only problem with that theory is that there were three or four girls there and I was the only one that he "accidentally" touched their boob.

[Leeggg]

Tbh, it just sounds like you're clinging to the hope that he's into you. We all played Marco Polo when we were kids, we all know it's ridiculously easy to tell if someone is cheating to have their eyes open. Unless you think he can tell the difference in the way the water moves from your body compared to the other girls, then I I'd almost gurantee it was accidental. Three times isn't too unlikely to be coincidence.

[Asker]

ok, I was just trying to state all the facts

[sealevel27]

Did you enjoy it? And no, it wasn't an accident.

[Shaun]

Were his eyes really closed?

[Asker]

I think his eyes were closed, but I didn't actually see so I am not completely sure.