Guys can you explain why you look down on women who are easy?

[SillyWillow]

I guess this might seem like a stupid question, but I always sort of wondered. Almost all guys dislike easy women and look at them as bad people. Why is this? Guys like to have sex, and girls like that will have sex with them! Shouldn't guys like them? Also,many guys like to think that girls are just as obsessed with they are. But no matter how much a guy claims that girls are just as into sex as guys, he will say girls who sleep around are bad. Guys who have a lot of sex are not really looked down upon by anyone. Girls who do are looked down upon by girls and guys but I think MORE by guys. Guys can you please explain to me how you feel about girls like that, why you have no respect for them, or even why you hate them? If you say its cause they don't respect themselves, how do you know? Maybe they just want to have a lot of sex? What would you think about a woman who has a lot of sex cause she is into it all the time or something? Do you view this as different than guys who have a lot of sex cause they are into it? PS- I am not asking this because I am a slut - I am the opposite of easy actually. But I still never understood why guys don't like the very girls who are willing to give them what they want...sex!

[NothingGoldCanStay]

First to answer why guys don't like sluts, it is for a couple reasons. One it is easy for women to get laid, hence why prostitutes get paid money, female p*rnstars make 10 times more than male ones, and why men always pay more in clubs than women do, have you ever heard of guys night in a club? Anyway a man that can charm women on so much that they sleep with them must have "something". On the other hand a woman can almost always get a guy, it all depends on her standards of course but I would say the average single guy has little to lose and will probably accept to sleep with a girl if she offers and he finds her physically attractive.

For me personally, I have no issue with sluts, I don't insult them it a woman's choice and I give her the thumbs up if that is what she wants to do, it is the 21st century after all. I personally wouldn't find it very attractive for a variety of reasons, one stds, two hate thinking of the different men that have been there before, three she will probably not be very tight and it won't feel as good. I have slept with easy before and there are benefits, like they are up for everything and anything so the sex tends to be really kinky. Also they usually give great head and know how to turn you on, but again I only go for it once in a blue moon but I would never become very serious with one unless I believe she has really changed her ways.

Finally, what I do like are women that enjoy sex but are not sluts. As in they are selective about who they mate with, they don't sleep in a different bed every week, they will sleep around but every guy they have slept with has been because they genuinely liked them a lot. Not just fcking but real passion. I admire a woman that can be open (no pun intended) like that and know what she wants and gets it.

[jjacksoniv]

I wouldn't say I hate a girl who is easy for say, I mean its her body she can have sex with whoever she wants, I just don't see myself trying to have a relationship with an easy girl, she more than likey going to easily give it to someone else.

[SuperCurious]

I think it is just one of those things that always has been and always will be...It's one of those stupid double standards, but I believe it is because most men view women differently, kinda like we are innocent, delicate, little flowers...which as you know, we are not, lol. But most guys like the idea of being with a Lady that "respects" her body and sole rather than a "slut" that has been around the block and back, they like to feel like they are teaching her a thing or two, and are not being compared to previous men while in the process...That's what I have gotten from it...lol

[taster]

I would not disagree with what you said but I think that most of us don't like the idea of some other guy's "dirty d***" being in our "honey-hole" it gets especailly distressing if you love to go down on her (which I do) I have not even tasted my own goo..and the thought of tasting some other guy's is grounds for throwing up...

[SuperCurious]

hahahaha so true

[SillyWillow]

lol taster

[Leeggg]

I dig easy chicks. The majority of people are too uptight about sex. I've got a couple of girl friends who are really cool to hang out with, just like one of the blokes. Having beers and whatnot. You could go in the bedroom with them, have a bit of sex, come back out and have another beer. Those are my favorite kind of girls cause they don't need to tie in emotions with sex or make anything awkward, and because it's with a friend its easy to know that they don't have any std's or whatever.

I know I'll probably get heaps voted down for this, but whatever.. At the end of the day, sex is fun, feels good, it's good for you.. Easy girls can do good for society to I guess :P

[l-hedoniste]

Beneath it all, is fear.

When a girl is assertive sexually, immature, insecure guys immediately begin to wonder whether they have enough to satisfy her sexually. Rather than step up their game, however, they find it easier to try to make her feel worthless so that they can feel more important than her.

Fortunately, there are enough women who call bullsh*t on this nonsense, and enough mature guys with nothing to fear, that this need not matter to too many people.

[kheserthorpe]

Personally, I prefer girls who are comfortable with their sexuality. When I was younger, yeah, it was intimidating, because the reality is, a girl who likes sex as much as a guy ... is likely to be way more experienced then most guys, because its so much easier for her to have sex.

But I think guys who look down on them, see them as not suitable for a relationship. So those guys would tend to caution their friends to have fun with easy girls, but not get serious. I think perhaps this stems from a fear that those girls are more likely to cheat on them.

I would have disagreed with you by the way, my impression is that while some guys look down on 'sluts', girls tend to _hate_ them. Sluts undermine the ability of other girls to force guys into a committed relationship in exchange for sex. For girls who think that sex shouldn't happen without a relationship, but fear that's what the guys they want would prefer, sluts are scary.

[MrEM4N]

When I hear slut I associate the word with STDs. It's probably not true but I can't help but feel like they're dirty. I also imagine big meat flaps. If I wanted roast beef I'd go to Arbys.

[brenster]

I don't dislike girls like that at all but I may questions her taste in terms of some of the guys she's slept with. As for bad mouthing, I have heard far more comments from girls as in, "What are you talking to her for, she is such a slut?"

[Steve4783]

Because we think that they are most likely to cheat.