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My girlfriend is a virgin, she gets really turned on when I play with her. Should I have sex with her?

We spend a lot of time making out and me being a man I can't help but start initiating more sexual foreplay, like kissing her on the neck and playing with her nipples. She seems so into it and I am almost sure she orgasmed once. I was wondering we haven't been together for a long time just 2 weeks. How should I approach the sex thing? She is 27 years old and I kinda think she wants to lose it by the way she acts, when we make out she wraps her legs around me. Also I have never been with a virgin, what is the best way to go in without making it hurt to much? Any tips?
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My friend said you should finger her a bit before and make her really horny that way... is this true?
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  • ...better to ask her.

    and probably don't ask in the heat of the moment...bring it up at a different time so that she has time to think about it if she needs to..she might not need to, but for some girls...if they have waited til 27 yrs, then it might be something quite important to them and she might regret doing it if she is not ready emotionally, and said yes in the heat of the moment...i don't say that in any way as a reflection on you!

    Its just that foreplay with a guy feels amazing and is fun and it's great to explore...but it's veeery different from feeling a man's penis inside you for the first time...u know?

    Also, every woman is different...the first time, some feel more pain than others...some say they don't at all. Overall, just make sure she's aroused so she's wet when you first enter... and just take things slowly - or according to how she is responding to you. And no pressure to do lots of stuff unless she seems she wants to, simple and sweet the first time and then you can be more adventurous the next time! ...gosh, wrote this whole thing and then realized EverythingReal said basically the same...haha!

    good luck!

  • mmmm, well, that all depends on her and what she likes. Are you good at fingering? If you've had good responses from girls when doing your thing, then why not? But you've gotta know your girl and what she likes. And when you know what her body wants, do those things to her...maybe that includes fingering, maybe it doesn't...I do like it, but then not every guy knows how to touch a girl there.

    • I don't know if I am good only properly did it once with this milf, it took about 20 min until she finally orgasmed. does it usually take that long or am I just sh*t at it?

    • hey, don't worry! I just meant that what your friend said isn't really the best thing to go by because for some girls they prefer other things.. Pay attention to her body's responses to what you do (if she likes something do it more, if she doesn't like something stop doing that), or ask her straight out what she likes, and do those things...that will make her most excited. I think just lots of foreplay and you're fine.

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  • You must ask her. Never ever try to do something she is not comfortable with. Never assume anything that has to do with her wanting sex.

    As far as making it not hurt, everyone is different, if she is 27 it is highly doubtful that she still has her hymen. Start off slow (No, you don't have to keep going slow), it's help ease things up. Make sure she is wet before you start, some people like lube, others don't.

  • I think you should hav this convo with her when he is not all horny like that...tell her how you see how she's reacts when you guys makeout etc, and you don't wanna pressure her , ask her if she would like to try having sex...i think 2 wks is too soon for sex waita mth or 2 at least if you want it so bad

  • Lol why the hell are you asking this stupid question. that's your call not ours. dumb ass.

    and if you want tips go watch p*rn.

  • It only hurts if it was dry!

    and if she got nervous!

    make her wet and keep a lube near you ( in case she got dry from being nervous)

    listen to her body signals! Is she is pushing you away, take it slowly.. You are hurting her!

    don't get offended or nervous!

    be her prince

    imagine the best way you could loose it in and try it out

    put your self in her shoes =)

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