Guys: do you feel an emotional connection when a girl swallows?

[Anonymous]

I ask because I hear all the time about guys worshiping women who swallow. However, every guy I blew & swallowed, never went out with me again or contacted me. Some of them say they would wanna get together again, but don't. I wasn't looking for a boyfriend anyway, but I'm curious if guys love swallowers how come they never contacted me again? Do you guys really feel a connection with a girl who takes your load? Why do you think they never wanted to hook up with me again when they said they wanted to?

[christian2724]

I don't know why these guys don't call you back.. Probably they're only interested in sex.

When a girl swallows it feels better. I feel like she likes me more. I don't feel an emotional connection. If I'm with a girl I'm already getting into, it is a positive gesture. It makes me feel like she accepts me. It's great... but it's not enough to make me like a girl on its own.

There could be a million reasons why they don't call back. Sounds like you're attracted to guys that are players, or sleep around. It's not a big deal to call you back because there are probably plenty of other girls for them. Or you have a personality issue. Or you're unattractive.

[Asker]

I've got a great personality & I am VERY attractive, I hot the exotic thing going for me. I never really want to be with them again, & some have tried to get with any again but I didn't want them.. However there were 2 guys I did wanna hook up with again. They were hot. They said we should get together & all that but I never heard from them again. I didn't want to be their gf... Just casual..

[Asker]

I *got the exotic*, & they tried to *get with me again* So many errors...

[christian2724]

Well that's the trouble with chasing really attractive people... you're not the only one chasing them. They might prefer to try someone else instead of giving you a second shot. They have that luxury. They have more options so you're not that big of a deal.

[Asker]

Ha, you sound like a d--che. I am that big of a deal, I think I just didn't connect with them the way they wanted. Even though it's casual our personalities are too far off. Enjoy your night, blue balls :)

[christian2724]

Must have hit pretty close to the mark to stir you up like that. What can I say.. the world doesn't revolve around you. Your p**** isn't the tightest. There are hundreds of girls. If you were so awesome... he would have called you back. :/ So it's your personality (likely considering your response) or... he's f***ing a few other girls and he'll get back to you when it's convenient for him.

[christian2724]

You're getting a little long in the tooth too honey. Attractive guy... he could be banging 18 year olds. Why would he want to bother with you? You're past your prime. I

[Asker]

I gave you that response because you're being an a$$ hole. Go back & read your reply. I don't think the world revolves around me. You are making assumptions like an idiot. The fact is, you're a sexually frustrated jerk who probably hasn't had a bj in forever, & you'll never get a girl as hot & skilled as me :) you probably have a small penis too.

[Asker]

Haha, you're a f--king troll! Past my prime? I'm in my 20's! What are you, some pedo? And girls that are 18 have no skill. Women in their 40's are the best lovers. Women my age are great lovers too because we are not stupid bimbos & comfortable with ourselves. Now f--k off you 2 pump chump :)

[christian2724]

How was I being insulting before? I was just saying what you are from their perspective. And it's true. Own up to it. How are you special to a guy who can get ANY girl he wants? You're not. I didn't start being mean until after you called me a douche. Please.. I've had plenty of girls. A lot better than you should. You sound like a bitch. I'd have to put in ear plugs to get some from you. Nag nag nag nag nag...

[Asker]

How do you know they could get anyone they want? I think they're good looking, doesn't mean all girls do. How do you know they could get better or that you could do better? You don't know what I look like. You were being an insulting asshole from the start. You are bitter because you can't get laid, & you're ugly. The only way you could get some from me is if I were dead. You are hideous.

[christian2724]

Jesus lady.. you're really a bitch. I was being honest. When I'm mean you'll f***ing know it. And I haven't even started yet. Cry all you want. You're not the sh*t and I hope it dawns on you. If you were as hot as you say you are... they'd have called you back. THAT'S how I know. If they're aloof... it's because they have other girls. With a personality like yours though... how defensive and hostile you've gotten... I don't blame them for not calling. Your looks don't make up for it.

[Asker]

Just so you know the guys said I'm very attractive, so it's a personality thing. We just didn't click for even casual affairs. You weren't speaking any truths, just insulting me off the bat. :-O-<===8 that's an emoticon of me taking a load.

[greyline24]

I feel a deep connection when girls swallow's it tell's me she love's me and will do anything to please me! Those guys are probley PLAYERS or JUST USED YOU. Sad but, true they probley thought of you as a FLING and that's it. A lot of guys feel a connection when girls shallow's but, we guy's will never tell you that.

[Cartiphilus]

I might be speechless if the girl swallows, but an emotional connection from that?----no.

[7121uc]

its just hot to see a girl swallow. I doubt you can get a emotinal connection from swallowing.

[dudeman]

probably not id most likely be super turned off because I would assume that wasn't her first time doing that

[dudeman]

like sure it would be super hot but I would see no long term potential there

[Asker]

Then why let her blow you to start with? If you're sticking your most valuable member in somethingg you think is trash, then you really feel bad about yourself :)

[dudeman]

no not about myself bad if I marry her, I just don't do things like this anyways I've been abstinent for a few years now by choice starting to think its kinda dumb seeing how most likely my wife is getting f***ed by another man as we speak seeing how these are the women we have to pick from

[Anonymous]

Emotional connection after one night stand? what's that? sorry for being a jerk but we don't develop emotional connections with one night stands, and swallowing just makes it hotter, that's it...sorry

[Anonymous]

I don't think the guys not contacting you is related to your swallowing.

Why do you think they never wanted to hook up with you again?

[Anonymous]

whew...ur in quite a pickle. you don't just swallow any guys load. You wait till your in a relationship first. They were probably surprised you did it and mentally labelled you as a slut (probably infectious, No Offense) and said what they had to and dipped. It was probably amusing to them but then guys get to counting how many others you had swallowed. that's when it gets nasty.

[Anonymous]

It is hot for some guys to see a girl swallow, but no emotional connection comes with that.