Why do compliments turn me on so much?

[Anonymous]

I can only really get off during sex (or while I'm doing stuff with my partner) if he's obsessing over some part of my body. I don't have the greatest pair of boobs, but I love my body. For example: It really turns me on when a guy is giving me oral and he says things like "your __ is so sexy" or when he looks up at me and tells me how hot I look, or even if he expresses how much he loves my thighs. Seconds after a compliment like that, I'm done haha If we're having sex and he's sucking and playing with my boobs (which I'm severely insecure about) I'll come in seconds. I finish on instant when I lay on my belly and he's fingering me and he spanks me, jiggles my butt with his other hand or tells me how much he like my butt. It's seriously the ONLY way I've ever actually finished while I'm not alone. And my current boyfriend doesn't compliment me as much as my ex and he likes the lights off on occasion because he's in secure (when he shouldn't be!). I'm also the type of girl to express things I like about him while in bed, too. So I'm not just expecting compliments without ever giving any, because I give a lot. And I'm obsessed with how penises look and make it known. I want to tell him to compliment me more, but then I'm afraid that I'd question his sincerity... why do compliments turn me on so much? Help!

[Anonymous]

I used to tell my ex when I eated her out things like * your pu**y tastes good sweetie * or *ur clit taste amazing * and she liked it so much and when I suck her t*ts I tell her before I start sucking them *I'm hungry babe would you feed me your t*ts* and she was like *ohhh of course eat them hun* :) goshh I miss those old days ...but dame it ! she was calling me like all the time I didn't like it :- |

[Anonymous]

Have you explained this to him?

Honestly, I have to hold back on the complements because it seems to annoy my wife.

I enjoy telling her how good her breasts look, how her butt is amazing and turns me on, how tight she is, etc.

[Asker]

I wish I was in her situation! haha Having to ask for compliments just seems like a total turn off to me, tho :(

[Opinion Owner]

Don't ask. Just tell him how good it makes you feel. There is a difference.

[Butterfly_kisses09]

Different things turn different people on. Nothing wrong with that. I don't know that you can get him to compliment you more unless you tell him what you told us here.

[Asker]

I guess, but telling him would just make me feel like he's only complimenting me because he knows it drives me insane. So it might take away from the sexiness lol.

[Butterfly_kisses09]

Lol true. You could compliment him more and hope that will make him compliment you more maybe. lol

[Anonymous]

I love compiments and also like you said I give them as they are given to me. But It just adds more spice to it all and it definitely helps me to do it faster.

[Anonymous]

How big are your boobs

[Asker]

Not big ha ha 36C

[Anonymous]

Maybe your insecure and need validation

[Asker]

I wouldn't consider myself insecure lol. I'm actually really happy with most of my body, unlike most women.