Personally, I'm a fan of reverse cowgirl. You should look that one up and have fun riding him for a change!
10 min is most likely exaggerated as girls tend to view three minutes of sex as 5 because of the orgasmic feeling that overtakes them (I got that from the governments study! Yey for tax dollars!) Anyway 10 minutes or even 6-8 minutes is really a long time in sex time. The blow job before sex advice really works but even then, if you need him to feel less, condoms are good for that. Heck two is good. But honestly, if he can hold out, you just need to let him know. Also, if you need more time than 10 minutes maybe you need a little extra attention before hand. Or you just can't reach orgasm fast enough. Maybe before sex try to stimulate yourself to a higher place. Maybe even use a sex toy for it. I think you're just starting the actual penetration too early in the event. You should be well worked up before that happens and he should have came at least once. Truthfully, I try and make my girl come with my mouth and fingers well before I have sex with her. Just explain delicately that you need to try something else and that it isn't working out for you. Try all the good advice here and see if you can solve the issue. If you can't do it on your own, maybe something else if wrong with you? There are professionals to help out with that.
I've always been quick in bed. I've done my kegels, practised slow masturbation and all the other techniques suggested with zero effect really. So out of desperation I procured some Dapoxetine. If you dont know How to get it, the easiest thing to do is just search on Google for the keyword * DAP247TAP * ❤️ . I last longer on it without a doubt 😀 - note that it does not anaesthetise one's penis or deaden sensation, but it just gives you 'breathing space' - for a life long rapid ejaculator to be able to experience penetration for longer periods without constantly trying to hold back is pretty amazing. I've just found that they have Via*ra and Cia*is with Dapoxetine 👍. That's amazing. Hope this helps.
first off you must understand 10 minutes is definitely more than average. But there are some things that can help. Look up "sex positions girl on top" and you will find lots of stuff BUT he very well may come faster that way. Basically if you want him to last longer have more sex. Give him a bj first and then get him back hard and then have sex.
Lemme know if that works if not there are a few other options.. A Durex condom called Performmax can help.. BUT it has to be used correctly and may make the guy self conscious.. You might consider asking for more foreplay for you.
what are things I can do on bottom that will make him bigger and wanna keep doing me?
I'm not really one for liking girl on top positions just because most of the time I feel like I can't pump as fast as he can because I'm not working it with my pelvis and it just doesn't feel as good. Like Ricky Bobby says, "I want to go fast!" Anyways, a lot of guys can't go for anywhere near as long as girls can. It's just the way it is. Girls often take longer to pleasure. It's something that most girls have to deal with, but the only thing you can really do is teach your boyfriend what you like so he can get you to climax faster. :)
he can go deeper when he's on top and feel it better. that's what my man tells me. if your on top insert his d*** and bounce roll your hips etc like grinding kinda but with him in u
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!well, you must be doing something right if he can only last 10 minutes lol, but maybe watch some p*rn, girls are on top a lot, take a few pointers from that
10 minutes of penetration is almost double the average time.
You're lucky he doesn't only last 2 minutes
Ten minutes is pretty average. He might last longer with time (I mean, as the years pass).
You could encourage him to do more pre-sex/foreplay activities. Secondly, masturbation is supposed to delay orgasm in male. Even if you don't like that, there's a way to gently hold his balls, and tug them a bit (not too much, it could be painful) and this is supposed to delay orgasm.
Interrupting can also delay a man from cumming. I mean, you get him to withdraw for a minute or two, and focus on something less arousing (maybe just touching each other). I know this can be distracting when the passion is building up...
One good way to last longer is to masturbate about 4-6 hours before you have actual sex. Of course, it's not always possible to plan in advance. But the second time, he will probably be slower.
Please don't be rude to him; it can really hurt the male ego!
he's inexperienced
As others have pointed out, 10 minutes of intercourse is actually fairly long considering the average.
Google "sex positions" and you will find websites with hundreds of sex positions. Try some of them out and see if you enjoy them more than him simply on top of you. How do you learn to do anything in life? You try it out and practice. The same applies to sex and sexual positions.
The kinsey report suggested the average male ejaculates in 3 minutes.
How long do you want to go? My guess is if he can last 10, he probably has enough control to stretch it out a little longer, but you need to tell him that. I'm assuming that the limiting factor is not him getting tired, but rather him having an orgasm.
If you want to go on top, roll on top of him. You move your hips up and down, or in a circular motion.
You'll never get better at it until you do it.
That said, my wife still can't move her hips and have an orgasm at the same time, she can go on top but when she really gets close, I need to flip back on top and give it to her.
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