Girls why do you hate men who sleep around?

[Anonymous]

I am a man who sleeps with women. Its normal. Why would I be exespected to withhold my sexual erges? Recently I was hanging out with some friends and one of my friends new girl friends. We were all just talking guy talk. I am known to have a lot of sex and I was talking about a recent vacation. This girl just kept saying such disrespectful things to me. Calling me a manwhore/ or tool. I for the most part ignored her. I called her out on what she was saying but did not say anything back. don't want drama. BTW this girl has slept around with a few of my friends that I know. I didn't bring it up. But she has no right to judge me. So women are you intimiadated by a man who is sexually comfortable and active. I understand if you find it unattractive for a boyfriend, but I'm not trying to date or lie to anyone. I am myself at all times. I don't sleep with like any girl. Only women I'm attracted to.

[selfishstars]

For some, it's because your behavior goes against their personal views about sex or "morals". A lot of people have a hard time understanding that morals are subjective, so you should do what's right for you, and let other people do what's right for them, so long as your actions aren't causing harm to others.

But I also agree with what others have said---the double standard surrounding sex also comes into play for some people. Women are expected to withhold their sexual urges and if they do have sex more freely, they're "sluts". This provides incentive for some women to put down or demonize men who engage in the types of behavior s that they would be put down or demonized for if they engaged in them.

[kewkewsie]

because it greeeeeaaaasy. Very unappealing as a boyfriend and their ego tends to suffer from all the rank p**** and they become arrogant, douche bag sums it up. And girls don't like man whores, sluts do, all the man whores just share a big cesspool of sluts, they aren't even getting all the ladies, just swapping sluts.

[Asker]

That is a biased opinion.

[Anonymous]

If I slept with every man I was attracted to, I'd be called a whore. So you will get the same name.

[SayHelloToMyAfro]

Generally women don't make it as easy for guys to get sex as guys do for girls, so it's a little different.

[Opinion Owner]

Women only make it hard for guys because we're considered sluts/whores if we don't. If that stigma didn't exist, women would make it much easier on guys. I know there have been probably 40 guys in my life I wanted to have sex with, but I've only slept with one because I knew I'd be considered a slut otherwise. So I have no sympathy for guys who are ridiculed because we have it much worse.

[StayUpGetDown]

exactly what this answerer said. The reason why its harder for guys to get laid is because of the whole slut/whore thing you guys continue to keep alive. If girls didn't have to worry about being judged, ridiculed and shamed believe me when I say a lot more girls would be "easy"

[Asker]

I wouldn't call you a slut even if you had its none of my bussiness. I don't exspect a girl to only have on parter all her life, that be weird IMO.

[italiancutie88]

because of double standards women who sleep around are considered sluts and men who sleep around are considered players. I don't hate men I just can't stand people who still believe in the double standard as I have met some nice guys. not all guys are bad just some.

[Delaisback]

I think that she was mad at you because you were her scapegoat. Usually guys can have lots of sex without judgement, her on the other hand cannot, though it was good of you not to run her past exploits in her face.

It's just about jealousy, and you were just seen as the poster boy for guys who can get away with such things.

[ltmcneill]

I am sorry I wouldn't want a manwhore...if I found out he was one I'd dump him. Guys who take sex seriously are so much more respectable and valuable...like a rare diamond. Why would I take dirt over a diamond?

[Asker]

Well that's your opinion. The question was not about becoming your boyfriend though.

[batesis]

@ltmcneill said here, I don't want a whore as well.

[Anonymous]

haha the funny thing, women say they hate such men, yet they're always attracted to them and trying to date them it seems >.<

[sikoo31]

why do men hate girls who sleep around?

[SayHelloToMyAfro]

Genetics and memes? I don't agree with them though.

[sikoo31]

same here.

[grape89]

She's probably jealous..