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Is she secretly a slut or not?

So there's this girl I work with and she just got hired back around March or April and I swear she is ALWAYS in a good mood. she's really cute and pretty and every guy at work wants her. most the girl there hate on her or talk about her behind her back sadly but every guy goes crazy for her. I think one of the reasons people talk sh*t is because she's a;ways happy and always friendly and some think it comes off as annoying and I hate to admit it but all us guys are trying to figure out what it is. she has this good girl attitude and comes off as sweet and innocent but we suspect she either gets high and parties a lot secretly or is like a closet slut and secretly hooks up a lot without really saying anything. we just know therehas to be SOME thing that makes her in a good mood all the time. what would you assume it is?Is s
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I read in a book that when you approach a girl and ask her "How are you doing?"

    97% of the time, they will say 'ok' or 'fine'. Those types of girls are the sane ones.

    The other 3% will say "I'm GREAT!" or "AWESOME, HOW ARE YOU?" --> These girls can be scary/crazy in one way or another.

    I'm going to admit - there are 2 girls I do remember who were happy and playful whenever I saw them. They seemed too optimistic and carefree in whatever they did. And sure enough, it turns out that their Facebook profiles have some sexual content, whether it being remarks or pictures, that pretty much exposed them to being dirty girls who've potentially slept around.

    Despite my judgement, I honestly don't care. I'm not their father or their boyfriend. I'd rather stay optimistic and not judge a book by it's cover rather than be pessimistic and hateful for what another person does.

  • Sounds just like a happy girl. Always have to think the negative about a person to make them sound interesting.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Perky people exist. I used to be very happy and it was just a part of my personality...and everyone used to comment on it and ask me "why am I always so happy and smiling?". all this to say that maybe that is just how she is. I don't know why people get so confused when someone is always in a good mood...some people just like to smile and look at the positive sides to life.

    OR

    maybe she is a really unhappy and covers it up with a smile and a good mood. It can go both ways. Find out by getting to know her (:

  • this is how people acted to me at my old job. I can't speak for her, but maybe she's just a positive person. I know its rare nowadays but there are people out there who are truly genuinely happy. this will make insecure unhappy women want to bring you down, and men seem to genuinely like happy women. so yeah she's probably a genuine and nice person. why not just get to know her?

  • She's probably just naturally upbeat. I'm the same way she is. Some people just choose to focus on the sunshine :)

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  • I'd assume she's a happy person.

  • she's always secretly a slut

  • Welcome to seeing women at their finest. We are devious little wretches.As long as she is disease and virus free, why care how many guys she has been with? It's NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS...guys with little wiener complexes.

    • because only omega males get with girls that have been passed around

    • man comments, " she has been passed around" like the guys were in control of who gets her and for how long. Her sexual relations are none of anyone's concern unless she decides to disclose it. Cause a woman likes sex that makes her a whore? Please, grow up. Like I said, *little wiener complex*

    • no I got the big d*** that doesn't mean I have to accept a women that has a colorful sex life, and it is the business of the person she wishes to be with very much so you have a right to know what your dealing with

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  • Wow lol.

    I can't help feeling like every person involved in your story is a complete tool, with the possible exception, ironically, of the girl in question. You all sound like a bunch of judgmental, over-analyzing gossip hounds.

  • she has an unlimited supply of paxil.

    fo. sho.

  • lol wow I swear girls got it tough. when a girl is walking around smiling and nice to people, that's what you call a closet slut now?

    • more often then not they are

  • sounds like a sloot to me they often disguise them selves as sweet innocent girls don't be fooled

  • Or maybe now bear with me here MAYBE she is just happy person mind f***ing I know but think about it

    • its not a safe bet

    • Whatever you say

    • youll find out

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  • I'd have to say it's probably because all the guys at work are crazy over her and girls are jeleous. Id be happy if girls loved me and guys were jeleous, wouldn't you?

  • Lol, she's probably not. You guys are just getting too caught up in your fantasy, she's only a slut in your dreams =P

  • gilly willy

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