Best way to ask a girl if she wants to fool around?

[digital_haze]

I have this friend and we're kinda friends with benefits. We hang out all the time and every once in awhile we mess around and have a little fun. It usually just happens and isn't planned. I want it to happen tonight and I was thinking about just coming right out and saying "Hey, you want to fool around tonight?". she's asked me that before but every time I've not been able to for whatever reason. It just ends up happening randomly. So I was thinking of just asking her. Think it will go over well? girls are kinda weird. Whats a better way to really kind of get the point across?

[Joe814]

Humor, and placing the situation in perspective. "Hey you want to exercise our friendship, you want to pretend we're more than friends tonight?" I don't know, a lot of bad lines have worked for me in the past. If you are respectful and sort of be non-committal about the method but still drop your bomb for example: bomb a city and call them up during the whole ordeal and apologize "Hey sorry about that!" "Did you want to catch a movie or a glimpse of each other naked tonite?" Or a scenario similar to: placing your hand on her shoulder, being sly and conversive slide it down to her lower back and lean over to smell the back of her neck. Tell her she smells good enough to eat when's dinner? I have done that but, it was out of desire not a twice-used method. If you wait long enough, hormones will force you to make a move. Just be casual not revealing the truth that you would like a daily schedule of playful delights. That was pretty corny. Then again, that comment sort of ages me doesn't it? Anyway, happy hunting.

[ladyari]

hehe! Did those lines actually work for you? :) they are so funny, I probably would've fallen for it.

[Joe814]

Yeah, some lines like that actually worked, although with the best intentions in mind. I think it is like the; "it is so stupid it's funny" concept, only it was so lame it was cute or something. Everyone ended up pretty happy any way.

[Anonymous]

well if you've already fooled around randomly, then at least you know she's open to that, so all that's left is taking initiative.

I would say to flirt with her and see the response. Compliment her. If there's a moment, steal a kiss and see her response. If she's open to you, great.

If you start doing this all the time, she might start realising that you're turning into friends who regularly mess around rather than randomly mess around.

At that point it's probably best to define what the relationship is. I don't think there is any easy way to just come out and say bluntly 'do you feel like foolin around?' it just sounds a bit off. So the way around this is expressing that there is an invitation to fool around, and see if she accepts that invitation.

[Anonymous]

i think you should just let happen..it just seems more natural... I think shell catch on..