Boyfriend lied about being a virgin?

Okay so, long story short. Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a month now. When we first met he told me he was still a virgin, and that he was happy about the fact that I was a virgin too. And that we could ''explore'' things together. So, to the question. Yesterday he told me this: ''Ummm yeah about the whole virginity thing...'' And then he tells me he's not a virgin anymore and before me, he was together with a 26 (?!) year old woman. (he is 19, I'm 16 soon 17.) Now I'm kind of comparing myself to that 26 year old all the time, I can't get it off my mind that he actually lied to me about it. I mean, I would've understood if he told me about her, but no, he liked to keep it as a secret. And I wouldn't want to talk to him about it anymore, because I don't want to seem jealous or in any kind of way childish, since he were with a older woman and I now feel like he could be a babysitter for me. I know it sounds complicated, but could you please help me out a bit. I don't know what to do, have you ever been in a situation like this? Am I overreacting? And guys, why do you think he lied to me about it? Would you ever lie to your Girlfriend like this? I'm desperate for help!. And I would like to have serious answers not just one work answers, please :)
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And by the way. I am still a virgin. I have not had sex with my Bf.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah, I've been in the same boat as you. Except, when we first met he said he wasn't one and that he lost it when he was drunk at a party. Then a month after we were dating and had sex, he told me he lied and was actually a virgin. Then about a month ago, ( we dated for ten Months and have been broken up for two) he said he lied and actually wasn't a virgin. Point is, they're all full of sh*t. Dump the liar.

  • I personally was never in that situation and if you guys have only been dating for a month, it seems to me that he was more interested in having sex with you then the relationship. But I'm just assuming.

  • I don't see why he felt the need to lie, but maybe it's best if you value your virginity, you give it to someone else...i guess if it doesn't mean anything to you, then you might as well sleep with him

Most Helpful Guys

  • You know what. Don't have sex with him..ever! Find a better guy who doesn't lie. And don't feel bad about being a virgin. Heaps of guys still are..including me

    • Do you think it would be mean if I would do something similair to him? Like snap him a little? :P

    • snap?

    • yeah, you know, wake him up from his dream. He kind of thinks this doesn't bother me at all, so I just figured I could maybe say something like '' I'm sorry, I've met some1 else and I want to be with him rather than you since he doesn't lie'' :P (even though I haven't met some1 else) What do you think?

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  • he lied once. he will lie again.

    dump him please. kthx

    save yourself fromt he heart break while its still fresh

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  • The whole issue here, I think, is the fact that he lied to you. I wouldn't stand for that..

  • Having a relationship with a liar is messy. There's no excuse for lying. Just leave.