Are there any people out there who actually DON'T CARE about Female Body Hair?

I mean, are there any guys who would totally be okay with it if their girlfriend (who had a nice body, pretty face, lovely hair, beautiful eyes, a great personality, etc.) did not use a razor? That means hair under the arms, on the legs, eyebrows, private areas... as is natural for a woman. Girls, would any of you prefer NOT to shave all the time? Do you ever feel like guys are superficial to only find us sexually attractive if we modify our natural bodies? Or is it required? What if a disaster hit, or you went camping for months, and no one could shave? Would you just prefer to be single?
Natural body hair can be sexy too! Even on females! I'm cool with it.
Vote A
No way - I want my girl bare everywhere, or no action between the sheets!
Vote B
I don't really mind too much, but I do need my girlfriend to shave her legs and underarms frequently.
Vote C
HAIR DOESN'T MATTER - love is beyond that, and sex is just love expressed in the ultimate way!
Vote D
I will still love her if she is hairy. I just won't want to have sex with her.
Vote E
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  • I would absolutely prefer not to. It's an enormous pain (sometimes literally- I have very sensitive skin). Men never seem to acknowledge the fact that yes, they are also expected to shave, but shaving just your face is nowhere near the trouble of shaving half the surface area of your entire body. It takes longer, it's more work, and to add insult to injury, you go through supplies at a faster rate meaning it's also more expensive. I would love it if men would stop taking women shaving for granted. It's actually a relatively new trend (although it's gone in and out of style I suppose), and men obviously never had a problem with it before they new any different. Women nzaturally have body hair so it's a misconception that body hair is masculine. Most women do have LESS body hair than men, but it depends on the individual, and these days even women with very little body hair are expected to shave it.

    That said, I sometimes prefer to shave because of how it looks or feels. But I hate feeling like people will think I look unattractive if I don't. When a guy has stubble on his face, he comes across as lazy at worst, but when girls have stubble on their bodies they are judged much more harshly. That's unfair.

    • It is painful for me too. I agree with you. Altho, I'm not a fan of guys with visible nose hairs or huge beards. So I can also see the other side of this. Or guys with long hair, I don't find that sexy. So in a way its just personal preference. But the small soft hairs that grow on womens legs... I don't think guys should make such a big deal. :(

  • I wish it weren't such an expectation for women to shave. I think choosing to shave or not should be a conscious choice, and women should have good reason to do that to their bodies. I don't think most women really give much of any thought to why they're actually doing it. However, being the social norm that it is, I do choose to shave, because, unfortunately, women who don't shave regularly are judged negatively on that basis.

    My sister stopped shaving a couple of years ago, but then again, she goes to an extremely liberal college where people are totally fine with that sort of thing.

    • Ooo, I wanna go to an extremely liberal college ! I agree with you that "choosing to shave or not should be a conscious choice" ... I wish guys could just find us sexy the way we naturally are.

    • yeah, definitely agree.

      I started reading this book a while ago:

      link

      I never got around to finishing it, but it addressed this sort of thing, and I thought it made a good argument.

    • i go to an extremely liberal college. I have yet to meet any girls who don't shave.

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  • I don't. maybe because I see it as part of Biology.

    To be quite honest, guys don't really care about female body hair. If they really don't like it, they'll let the girl know. But for professional reasons, like guys, sometimes we are required to not have that much body hair, rather than because people really care about it.

    In guys defense, we girls, too, sometimes expect too much of guys, such as prefering them to be clean shaven rather than not. and quite frankly speaking, guys usually have to shave ALMOST EVERYDAY because their facial hair grows faster than girls hair.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I didn't vote because I'm on the fence on this issue. I absolutely love the made up look of women when they shave everything totally smooth and wear their fake painted nails, sometimes that look makes my heart skip beats and I experience a desire for them that is hard to describe but the girl I have a crush on right now is the opposite, she's a tomboy and she only shaves armpits and legs like once every six months but I'm so into her I don't care and just like her the way she is. So I guess I don't care if the girl has enough personality to lure me in but if she has a great personality and spends the time to be well groomed by today's standard I'll admit that is the hottest. It isn't fair that women are expected to live to these crazy standards though so that is why I'm on the fence on this.

    • Thank you for explaining your opinion in such detail. :)

  • I voted A but could have voted C...I have had unshaved females before and it wasn't unpleasant..I would really prefer her legs shaved...don't care too much about armpits and I think that shaving pubic hairs is dumb (altho I can understand why one might wish to trim) ...I know a lot of northern girls that get lax about shaving in the winter when always wearing long pants..

    • o those northern hotties

    • So you are Canadian eh? Do you know females that "skate" (lax on shaving) in the winter? I can sure see why they would...and my wife sure doesn't shave every day...should ask her how often (or seldom!)

    • I used to not shave my legs in the winter - I need the hairs, they keep me warm damnit! Not many other girls I know do this though. :(

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  • I HATE body hair on myself. I shave unwanted body hair off because I want to. It's unattractive, looks bad and feels yucky. No, I don't find men superficial because they like when we keep ourselves groomed.

    Thumb down or boohoo over my different opinion, but I dislike body hair. unattractive and idgaf if it's natural

    • So do you like your man to have smooth sexy shaved legs/underarms/pubes?

    • Pubic hair is gross on everyone, but I don't mind it on my partner actually. I like when guys have leg hair

  • i voted c for my personal preference for myself and how I'm comfortable. I don't shave EVERYTHING but I shave mostly everything. honestly, I wouldn't want to not shave. I like that feeling of just having shaved when it's all smooth. I hate that stubbly feeling. it's itchy, gross, and just uncomfortable to me.

    • What about a guy with nice smooth shaved legs? Would that be attractive to you?

    • it wouldn't be stubbly if you just left it as it is. stubble only happens right after you shave.

    • QA-i don't really care much about body hair. I mean, it would be kind of atypical for a guy to shave his legs but hey if he wants to then I'm not gonna stop him lol beerY33-once you shave once, you can't go back so you'll have stubble forever if you stop shaving after having done it. and if you never shave you never get the smooth feeling either.

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  • I don't shave all the time. I shave when I feel like it and that hasn't posed a problem for me.

    • well that's good :)

  • I haven't shaved my legs or armpits in a month. It's nice and soft. People can say what they want about it, but aversion to body hair is something that has developed out of this specific culture, and (not to sound overly unconforming like "f*** society" or anything like that) I really don't care to adhere to a social norm that's a pain in the ass. I shave when I feel like it, not when I "should." Luckily, my boyfriend is one of the few guys who couldn't care less.

    • lucky girl! maybe I should try that for a month... I get such bad rashes when I shave it hurts and I don't see why I should have to... boys are stupid :P

    • Yeah, I'm not sure they realize what a hassle it is for some of us :P Are you shaving because your boyfriend strongly prefers it? Or are you single and shaving because guys in general prefer it?

    • I used to for my ex-bf and resented him requiring it of me. Newly single, I will now be shaving because I guys in general prefer it. Altho I was CONSIDERING leaving the hairs natural and seeing if I could meet someone who didn't care...

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  • it is horrid that we're expected to shave,it seems to me like it's encouraging pedophilia,since women aren't supposed to be hairless,only little girls are. society always wants women to look younger,bigger eyes,hairless bodies,''flawless'' skin-really,it's all sick,but now that it's considered the norm-we're f***ed,and we have to accept that we're f***ed.

  • I'm a little hairier than average and I hate it. My arms and thighs are fine, to the point where I don't shave them at all, but my belly is the main culprit. I have a small happy trail above my naval. I've come to the point where I refuse to shave it anymore. It grows back the following week ! ugh. Below my naval gets hairy as well. I shave that because I can't get away with two hairy spots on my belly. :p

    Other than that, I occasionally shave my legs, armpits, and bikini line, especially now since it's summer.

  • No I HAVE to shave. I feel so gross if I don't. I like being smooth...

    • Have you ever wondered if feeling "gross" when you leave your body to be the way it naturally is... could indicate that there is actually something wrong with you (and obviously many women) mentally? Like you've been brainwashed by media?

    • Umm no. It's itchy and prickly and feels gross. Maybe there's something wrong with YOU mentally that you like feeling hairy. It has nothing to do with the media, I never hear the media talk about body hair except for commercials advertising razers...it's also funny how you're down voting anyone who says they prefer to shave/to have their girlfriend shave.

    • this makes me sad :(

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  • I appreciate it and find it sexy. Not specifically how they look/feel after they shave but the fact that they did it for me. :)

    • So you admit that girls don't do this for themselves? Interesting. What about, say, shaving your own armpits/legs/face etc. Would you do this for your girlfriend if she asked you to?

    • Well, I honestly think this whole thing was started by a women at some point in time. Like "hey, I don't like hair under my arms and on my legs" then another women saw it and said "hey I should do that too". So I don't know where all this "this is all men's fault" diction comes from. Either way, I don't admit to anything because you'd have to ask each girl that do shave the reason why. It's like why do they put on makeup? By designer clothes etc? If my girlfriend asked me, I would.

    • It all started with the media advertising campaign for razors in the 1920s apparently. They brainwashed everyone.

  • I would like everyone, men and women, to at least *tame* their damn body hair. You don't have to be super bare, but I shouldn't be able to make a weave out of your pubes/armpits, k?

    • ahaha a "weave"

  • The societal norm that women should have their underarms and legs shaved has been in place too long to accept a change. I don't know just when a bare vulva arrived as a fashion but, for me, it's the best thing since sliced bread. The beauty of the vulva can only be truly admired when it's bare.

    • ?!?!?! it's been in place too long to accept a change?! that's like the argument that it's "too soon" to address the issue of gay marriage. just because something is established certainly doesn't mean it's right.

    • Um. What beerY33 said.

    • Her question was, "Are there any people out there who actually DON'T CARE about Female Body Hair?" not should homosexuals and lesbians be able to get married. Since you raised the question, my answer is the definition of marriage is strictly between a MAN and a WOMAN period! Fagots and lesbians are the BANE of society! Now, aren't you glad you changed the subject?

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  • The legs are a must in my book but other than that I don't think I would mind a little furry here and there =3

  • I don't care about body hair, why, that would be shallow and superficial of me!

    A girl should be free and natural, like an orangutan!

    • ... an orangutan? Do I detect sarcasm, sir?

    • No Miss, I'm a good boy and I will do my chores!

  • I would find her about as attractive a dead squirrel, splattered on the road, with flies around it..

    • That image you described is like a metaphor for your personality... !

    • Yes, because you know me better than anyone else, right? You asked for opinions, I gave you mine.. Why ask for someone's opinion then insult them?

    • Lol sorry... it seemed like a clever joke at the time. Your response was pretty graphic tho, I don't think you should talk about women in that way.

  • I'd still love her just fine. It'd be nice if she would cause of only what we've come accustomed to in today's society, but I really doubt it'd be a deal breaker for me.

  • arm pit hair is nasty on girls. I don't know y really. Makes them manly they might as well have a penis. And at least a well trimmed vagina. And if she really wanted to I might b OK with leg hair maybe...

    • I will tell you why: because ads in women's magazines in the 1920s told people that underarm and other "objectionable hair" removal was now a necessity for women. My favorite part of your comment was when you said "they might as well have a penis". I wouldn't recommend you travel to France. :)

    • good thing I hate france. Thanks for the down vote btw

  • Hair's cool, I'm sick of shaved everything. Hairy pits, hairy legs, hairy hooha, you name it, I like it. It's raw, animalistic and sexy as hell.

    • whats with everyone using the word "hooha" recently? lol your point of view turns me on ;)

    • ;)

    • Playa!

  • I hate not shaving for a few days! I'm so used to it by now it's just routine.

    I shower and shave (legs, armpits, tummy, privates) every other day and I tweeze my eyebrows then too. I shave everywhere haha. I just feel clean and smooth that way.

    I'd be doing it regardless if I had a boyfriend at the time or not (I'm a virgin).

  • lol @ you thumbing down and insulting anyone that doesn't agree with your viewpoint. Pathetic if you ask me.

    • omg I am not "thumbing down" anyone, that must be other users. and I didn't insult anyone except for the dead squirrel guy! I am just challenging viewpoints and asking people to think.

    • I'll take the blame here, haha. I've thumbed down some people.

    • *sigh* typical person in society that can't accept others opinions in blatant questions.

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  • I don't care about pubic hair, I like it. But I would PREFER everything else shaved.. In the event of a disaster and inability to shave, I mean it's not like I'd stop liking the person.

    • but would you stop SLEEPING WITH the person?

    • Never, love sex.

  • Shaving leg hair and underarms is a must imo.

    • Are you able to analyze why you believe that?

    • Not exactly sure, I guess from a young age I was taught that hair is a masculine aspect. The same way muscle mass, height, and dominance is.

    • No female body-builders for YOU! lol

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