Why are guys loud during oral but silent during sex?

OK so every time I guys I've had why they're quiet during sex I get the shoulder shrug. they say that sex feels better than oral but I get a better response during oral. its confusing. help a girl out?
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oops sorry I made a huge typo. I meant to say every time I ask guys...you get the idea lol I don't know how to delete the question.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • This is just a guess so don't assume this applies to your guy without further info but from oral the sensation is usually more intense which makes me make crazy noises during it while actual intercourse is more tolerable and like a steady build up that results in a climax that I can control and control the noise I make.

  • ok so tonight when my wife was giving me a BJ the main thing is she controls the flow ... so to speak ... she can tease me bring me real close to cumm'in and back off a little causeing it to become very intense ... when I did come I couldn't breath it was so intense

Most Helpful Girl

  • My theory (may or may not be true, depending on the guy): Guys are more focused during sex. They're busy doing stuff. But during a blowjob, they get to sit back and relax. It's all about them, and they can completely revel in how it feels. This might be why some guys make more noise during oral than during sex.

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  • Your face probably looks way better than your body.

    • my boyfriend loves my body and half the time you can't see my face during oral I have long hair

    • Dang! Here's another one. During sex, guys are actually doing something (thrusting) and it's hard to say "OH DAM OH DAM GIRL OH" when we're pounding it.

  • You can stop and start and mess with us during oral. During sex it's one solid motion and it's more rhythm then anything. Rhythm = focus = silence.

  • i think it's focus. during sex, we are more concentrated on pleasuring the girl, but during oral, we're not really focused on anything...