Go down town, my brother, as SWV once sang:
You've been wondering how you can make it better
Baby, it's easy to turn my world inside out
Your discovery will take us to another place
Baby, on that, there is no doubt
I've been waiting for the special moment
Anticipating all the things you'll do to me
Make the first step to release my emotions
To take the road to ecstasy
You gotta go downtown
That's the way to my love
Take it round and round
Oooh, you can't stop 'til you find my love
Go downtown, To taste the sweetness
Will be enough
That's the love that you've been dreaming of
Keep on doing, doing what you're doing
'Til you feel the passion burning up inside of me
If you do me right
We'll be making love all through the night
Until you uncover the mystery
Take it nice and slow
Baby, don't rush the feeling
Now you know how you can make it happen, yeah
My desire is begging for the healing
Let me guide you down to the place to be
That's where I keep the key to my love.
(To my love)
It opens up the door to so, so much more.
(So, so, so much more)
Baby, move on down, get closer
To my sensitivity.
Ooh, yeah
Baby, send me.
(Ooh you can't stop till you find my love)
Baby don't you dare stop
(That's the love that you been dreamin' of)
That's the love you're dreamin of
(Ooh you can't stop till you find my love)
Don't you stop
(That's the love that you've been dreamin' of)
That's the love you're dreaming of
You have to make sure she's well lubed (turned on) before you try anything like fingering her.
If she's scared, she's most likely not going to be very relaxed, or turned on.
She has to be in the right mental space. You can try to get her there but you've got to be slow, patient, and spend lots of time on foreplay, and get her used to the idea that you won't try anything she doesn't want you to, and she doesn't have to have sex.
Also, as the anonymous girl below suggests, oral is pretty good because you can be a lot more tender with your mouth, than with your finger.
oral for sure. it'll make her feel good and when she's wet enough finger her gently
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Have her show you how she pleasures herself. If she doesn't know, then you're both going to have to fumble around. Good luck with that.
make he fill relax and start with some oral sex and have some foreplay and make her good and wet be for you put your self in side her and go real slow and if she need some help use some ky jelly to help her out it going to heart some because it is her first time doing it take it slow and she will start to relax some and the more you and her do it the easy it will get on her and you if she is scared make her fill comforable with what you are do and good luck
Give her oral sex. And before you actually have sex, make sure she is really relaxed from lots of foreplay.
I like it but I don't want do it to others
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