Not even the girl who sleeps around with other guys will sleep with me....

What does it mean when every girl, not even that one girl who is known for saying "yes" to a question like "do you wanna f*@k" wouldn't even sleep with me mean? I asked her at a party and put subtle content my friends told me to say and it came to no avail.
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  • It's a common enough problem, leading to the joke "What's the difference between a bitch and whore?" The whore is someone who sleeps with everyone. The Bitch is someone who'll sleep with everyone except you.

    "and put subtle content my friends told me to say "

    I don't know what that means.

    Look, a girl turned you down. It could mean anything. Examples :

    You aren't her type.

    You came off as creepy or dangerous.

    You asked in totally the wrong way.

    She's got a boyfriend.

    She was trying to flirt with someone else and you were cramping her style.

    She's got a girlfriend.

    She's gay.

    And that's just off the top of my head in 60 seconds. I am certain I could up with a dozen more reasons without trying to hard.

    Simply put : Don't read anything into it. Just move on to another girl, start chatting, and if you feel a connection ask her out.

    Sooner or later you hit gold.

  • You're not putting out the right vibe that would make girls want to sleep with you.

    Consequently, the girls who are LEAST likely to go for you are the sexual ones. The girls who are most likely to go for you are ones who think sex isn't important. You should stay away from those girls, they'll make you miserable, trust me.

    If girls aren't attracted to you, you're doing something wrong. You could keep doing it wrong, grow up, get a good job and get married to a woman who doesn't get very enthusiastic about having sex with you, or you could start trying to figure it out and change it.

    Are you in good shape?

    How confident are you in general?

    What's your self esteem like?

    How comfortable are you with your own sexuality?

    How comfortable are you flirting and being sexual with girls?

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  • ok what's the difference between you and the guys your friends girls do want to sleep with? are you passive and wimpy and kinda come off non sexual? just because a girl is a ho doesn't mean she'll do it with EVERYONE, she has to say no to someone even if she does sleep around a lot

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  • It means you're not her type.

  • I am not sure exactly what you asked her...but if she truly is as you say...all you have to do is make convo with her...SHE will take control and do the rest...u do not actually have to ask her for sex...and, if you are not picky...there are females out there that are more than willing to do u...Trust Me...

  • you're not that attractive?

    • thanks...that makes me feel better...

    • just coming up with reasons