What will my boyfriend think of my large labia?

[Anonymous]

I always thought it was abnormal since I started puberty. My boyfriend always wants to sneak a peek but I always tell him no because I am afraid it will turn him off, Mine is very large and asymmetrical. Is it actually a turn-on to guys if it hangs out(mine does?)I just want to know before I let him see. I do not have the option of surgery and I love him very much, If he dislikes it. Will it become an issue if we go farther in our physical relationship? I need answers!

[Anonymous]

Hey there,

I have / had the same problem. My labia are quite big and stick out as well. I always used to feel very uncomfortable and embarrassed about it and didn't really want my boyfriend to see me down there.

However, one day I just let him go down and decided that if he has any problems with the way I look down there, he won't be worth it !

But he didn't say anything about it ! he actually had no reaction about it, as if I am perfectly normal down there. He loves me the way I am and even loves my "private parts" the way it is.

So... don't worry about it. It is nothing bad, and there are more girls than you that have larger labia

[ilovelegs]

That will never be an issue if you as you go further into your relationship if you don't let it. It's not something he'll be looking at all the time like boobs any different if his di** has little curve left or whatever. lol! The main thing is to make SURE your relationship is about YOU and HIM and not about anything sexual because a strong sexual relationship will never keep you together. You want a strong emotional relationship where there's love, trust and commitment to one another. If you have that, he'll probably love your vagina as one of your fav things that he loves.

[virginpirate]

He will want to eat it. At least I would. I want to perform oral to a virgin girl since I'm a virgin lol. Make sure he's not a player.heart breaker.

[junitosway]

i would rather be with someone that has larger inner labia than not!

[FRANK]

Just reading about your labia excites me! I LOVE large labia, and so do most men. They are alluring and feel so nice, especially during oral sex.

The important thing is really to be confident about your body and enjoy what you've got

[ArtyC]

If it hangs out just alittle, and it's thick like a pair of lips; then it's sexy. If it looks like beef curtains; then no. Of course you have to consider that every guy has different taste. Hell for all you know; he might get a hard on looking at them, and you will have to beat him away with a stick. Only one way to find out. If you love him; better you find out how he view's it now.Waiting won't change anything.

[mrwiggles]

Some vaginas are better looking than others, but trust me guys love all vaginas, we spend our entire lives trying to get them, so when we do we aren't disappointed. It is more importants that you keep it looking nice and clean.