My boyfriend wants to see me flirt

Should I be worried about my boyfriend wanting to see me flirt with other guys at a bar. He wants me to go as far as dancing and even a small kiss would be OK with him. I'm wondering how a guy that I've been with for over 2 years would suddenly want to see that. I love him and it would drive me nuts to think about him flirting with another girl. He says he wants to marry me.
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Thanks for all the feed back. Now he says he wants to see me rub the guys crotch in front of him! For two years it has been pretty tame. I understand the need for a little excitement, but would a guy want his future wife to do these things?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • i know exactly what's going on with him

    my previous girlfriend and I talked abt it

    basically whne ur with someone for so looong you start to think about how would it be to be with other ppl, therefore you start to hv this imagination in ur head when you see strangers. would I be happier if I was single again or if I was with someone else, wot would it be like to be flirted while a guy think ur single?

    by hving you dancing and flirting with someone else, ull realised that ur better off with ur bf, eliminating those crazy thoughts and making ur trust in relationship even strong, but I wudnt recammoned you hv a little kiss with someone else than ur bf. just flirting and dancing while pretending to be single, he's giving ur the freedom, doesn't mean he wants the same thing in return, he wants the relationship to be even stronger

  • nope, not a "usual guy". either he is into kinky threesomes or he is gay. one of the two. do what YOU feel comfortable with

Most Helpful Girls

  • what a freak?! I am sorry but that is wierd! and I just think that if he loves you he shouldnt have to see you flirt with another random guy or especially a girl!

    so I guess its your call but still that is strange!

  • I don't understand this impulse exactly, but I do know of other guys who have wanted this. I don't think I'd be comfortable with it, I'd just feel like I was doing something wrong.

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