Feeling guilty after messing around with a guy? (girls input too please)

[Anonymous]

Hello. I am basically still with my ex boyfriend. But he said he "needs time" before we can get back together. Well last night I was at a bar. VERY drunk. And danced with this guy made out with him... Then he ended up going home with me and my room mate and her guy. And me and him ended up messing around. Not actual sex, but basically everything else.. I feel DISGUSTED with myself. I feel sad, mad, slutty.. etc. The next morning was awkward Because I avoided him for the most part, and he has been trying to text me all day but I want absolutely nothing to do with him... So I am kinda just ignoring it. I love my ex and I honestly don't know what I was thinking. And when I was hanging out with him today he kept touching me and trying to pursue sex (my ex) and normally I am all over that! But today, I felt guilty and nasty. Am I a complete terrible person? Will I go back to normal with my ex and not feel gross when we go to have sex?

[asdg12]

Explain how you're a terrible person...You and your EX aren't together in a relationship so you shouldn't feel guilty for just have a good time. You did absolutely nothing wrong so no need to get down on yourself, just relax and move forward. Good Luck

[MrOracle]

This is why you need to have much more clearly defined relationships. Either you are still with a guy, or he is your ex and you aren't involved in his life. When you try to straddle the lines, things get very messy very quickly.