How to give a good blow job?

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Exactly how do I give a blow job? I want to give my boyfriend one, but I'm SOOOO inexperienced. I need DETAILS please?

Killy · Accepted Answer

Please ignore that pathetic virgin before you go and watch Deep Throaters x12 and choke your self in his dick. Protip: Porno is acting. With that said, here's some tips:

Show enthusiasm. The best fellatio involves a giver who is totally into it, aroused, even a little worshipful. Explore his whole body. Start slowly. Touch, lick, and kiss your partner, not just the areas that turn him on but the ones that turn you on as well: the nape of his neck, his earlobes, his chest, his nipples, his round buttocks, feet and sensitive toes, thighs. Be vocal about the areas you adore, either by moaning with pleasure or simply telling him how hot you find his hard biceps, for instance.

Use your whole body. The best blowjobs involve much more than just your mouth, and focus on much more than just his penis.Use everything available to you to pleasure him. (Also, by using your whole body you show your own arousal and enthusiasm.) Use your mouth, lips, tongue, face, hair, hands, fingers and nails, chest, whatever occurs to you. Rub your genitals against his cock, his leg, or his hand in order to increase your own arousal during the blowjob. Let your body move naturally along with the movement of your mouth and hands. Allow it to be a sensual dance. He’s likely to enjoy the show.

I absolutely love it when she does this: Stick out your tongue and say “ah.” Leave your tongue out of your mouth and use it to pleasure the tip of his penis as you stroke.

Do also keep in mind that the shaft has far fewer nerve endings than the head and the frenulum, so taking him all the way in to your mouth could be unnecessary, but do keep in mind that some men adore the sensation of being taken fully into their lover’s mouth, its all preferance so make sure to communicate.

Never let your hands lie still and go unused while you give a blowjob! I cannot stress this point enough. Use them to stroke his shaft below where your mouth is, or you can hold his **** firmly at the base while you suck. Make sure to caress his whole body, stomach, thighs, chest etc etc.

Ok the time for the grand finale. When you sense he is ready to cum, quicken the pace. You should be pumping fast and furiously with your mouth, or your hand if you can’t move fast enough with your mouth. Timing is everything; at this point, DO NOT slow the pace no matter how sore or tired your mouth or hands become. Keep the rhythm going and don’t stop. Make sure you pace yourself during the blowjob so that you can finish with a sprint.

Swallowing. Do it, and he will love you for it. That said, you may use a tissue instead or spit it out .

What if he doesn’t cum? You're f***ed and basically doomed to watch him jack-off looking very frustrated at you ( no pressure, ladies ) until he cums. But this doesn't mean it should be this way! You can always talk dirty to him while he's doing it and touching him all over, kissing his neck while he is pumping should be quite exquisite. Whisper in to his ear 'Just let it go baby' and .

Jackdajerk · Accepted Answer

Hey, I'll give you a few tips.

1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

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5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone.

10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

Good luck,

Jack

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

SUCK!

Don't just put your mouth on it and go up and down, guys get bored when girls do that.

Suck and lick lots.

My boyfriend loves when I lick straight up and down on the underside of his penis and then

bring my mouth back over the head of it.

Lick the tip once and a while, and act like you like doing it, not like it's a favor.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

call me completely ridiculous but when I was younger and unexperienced this is where I found my answers, Cosmpolitan's Sex and Love Tips: link
It helped me out a lot and if I do say so myself I have heard from my boyfriend that I am sooooo good.

gravygirl · Answer

The real key to giving head isn't technique, but enthusiasm.  If you make a guy feel like there's no place in the world you'd rather be than down on your knees, sucking his penis, you can't do much wrong.  Guys love to be wanted, same as girls, and if you can give them that then exactly how you do it doesn't really matter that much.

JH5022 · Answer

suck it like a blowpop no doubt yo

coolguy93939 · Answer

before posting look to see if anyone posted a question like this. then you go a head and look at some porn video

adorkabletmtm · Answer

Don't sneeze.

Sweet-Sammy · Answer

i was so useless with blowjobs and I started practising on a cucumber at home, it worked. just use a lot of tongue on the tip of his dick. try putting it as deep as possible. move it up and down still use your tongue. touch his balls while sucking him. just try that for a start.

Sheryl · Answer

go ask his dad lol

Bloodbath · Answer

Here you go. That's how you give a real cool blowjob.

LilKwon · Answer

(I got hard when reading this) lmao exscuse me for that...soo anyways start by kissing him on the lips and on the jaws as well after that go to his chest and kiss on down, he will get an erection now especillay if you're hot and sexy lolol then as you go down on him hell be erected his penis starts to stick up slowly grab it while it's under his boxers once he likes it, pull his boxers down then slowly again grab his (whole penis) start sucking it up and down softly he will LOVE THAT!

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