I'm about to overload my aggression inhibitors. With that said, being a virgin doesn't make you a better person or more 'pure' ( god I hate that concept ), it never did and never will do. my answer is no. Even If I thinked that I loved her I wouldn't be 100% sure until I would have had sex with her.
I feel sex is a huge part of me expressing my feelings towards someone else, and I really can't imagine marrying someone I'm not intimate with. Saying I love you outside of aftersex glow is unthinkable to me. Don't even get me started about religion restricting people from doing the most natural thing in the world.
People really need to learn that sex is natural and fun and in no way shape or form, dirty. I would really like to hear you ladies saying why you are saving your self, why would you save something such as breaking your hymen on a guys genitalia? Because that's all you are saving. A pile of tishue and blood.
Actually I think most hymens are broken before people have sex. athletes break them all the time because you have to stretch and things like that. it's more of either a self respect thing or a religious thing. God made sex a fun thing for married couples. On the non-religious note, losing your virginity is way different for men than for women. When it comes to men, society tends to not be as shocked when they ahve sex. With women, society pushes the concept that women having sex are dirty...
I'm still a virgin, and my plan is to wait until marriage. Therefore, I wouldn't have a problem with it at all. I think the key thing is that sex isn't something that should be rushed. Jumping into bed with someone too soon could cause things in the relationship to go differently than expected. For those who think they need sexual compatibility before marriage, I'll agree with this. However, you don't have to have sex to determine that compatibility. I know what I fine sexual interesting. If you are willing to talk with your partner you can easily learn what turns the other person on or off. Jumping into bed with someone to learn if you are compatible with someone sexually is like grabbing a pair of jeans without looking at the size and trying them on to see if they fit. You could save yourself a lot of trouble just taking the extra time to check the size.
Enjoy being a virgin for the rest of your life.
LOL! oh god ouch! that was mean :(
Hahahaha so true. sucker.
how do I save this?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I definitely would! If I loved her I'd feel like she was something really special worth waiting for.
I said yes, because I'm waiting too.
Tough one. Well for me. I would no doubt want sex in some part of relationship but only when it really gets into something and won't be just only meaningless sex.
Should be the ''real love'' for me to wait till marriage. But hey! Who would get married if it wasn't the real love (Wait what? O_o).
20 years old and still a virgin for the record. Want girl that will really care for me and when we spend our first night I want her to know I waited all thease years for her and only.
How can you understand that this is SHE...?
Some things are meant to be.. Some things are just felt.. Some things will just say.. This is it.
If it's someone I plan to be with the rest of my life; then yes. If it's someone I am just dating; then why would I want to wait. Life is to short to waste it on a chick with mommy issue's.
No.
I have strong morals, but I'm not very religious,
so the whole celibacy thing just fundamentally makes less sense to me.
yeah I would. because at least you know she's not out there just letting anyone hit it. it kind of turns me on knowing she's that pure
Am I the only one who finds a guy saying he gets TURNED ON, by a girl who wants to save her self a little bit ironic?
Would I date someone who is? Yes.
Would I actually wait until marriage with them? No.
Basically I am patient about these things and wouldn't want to force her to do something she doesn't want to. But I don't believe in waiting until after marriage, if you're not ready to have sex, you're not ready to get married.
i have. did I end up having sex with her? yes.
would I actively seek one? only for a challenge.
You lie!
Nice one.
Date seriously? Never!
Doing things together? Sure.
not really because I think that she is going to be boring. not sexually but like just staying how and talking no guys wants to stay home and just talk with his girl , don't get me wrong I like to do that but not every single time I see her. although the fact that she has made that choice and has stuck to it makes me respect her more than I would someone that lost it early
i would and am waiting for my girl I do want to marry her and I know it we want to wait till after college to tie the knot and it might drive me nuts that we both have to wait to turn in or v cards but if its the love of your life it is so worth it and another point would be that if you only ever have sex with one person you have so many less problems with comparing them to others which puts a wedge in your relationship
Sex is cool. If u don't want it, then adios amiga
I would point out you said "date". Dating a girl and getting in a long term relationship with her are two completely different things.
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