Does it bug you if a girl wears a sexy dress out, and she doesn't have a perfect body?

[Anonymous]

i am extremely critical of myself, way too much. I refuse to wear certain kinds of clothing if I am not "small" enough. I went from being hardly any body fat, really fit, just a really nice body...to medium size after having a kid. I am always afraid to wear shorts, dresses, and skirts because I always think someone will think I shouldn't be wearing those things since I don't have a perfect body. whenever I go to a club or somewhere nice, all my friends end up wearing sexy dresses, and I end up wearing jeans and a blouse because i;m afraid people will make comments or give me dirty looks (because I'm not perfect, so why should I wear a little dress made for perfect girls?) are people REALLY that judgmental? or could they care less? I'm asking because I saw an amazingly cute dress then has one sleeve, is hot pink, and looks really cute. I'm just afraid people will make rude comments even my friend who is almost 100 lbs more than me wears little to nothing when we go out, and she told me I shouldn't be wearing the dress because I'm a "big" girl...(I'm a size 7, she's a 20).. do you all really care if you go out and see a girl who doesn't have a PERFECT body (maybe a tiny tummy from having a baby but it doesn't stick out, or she has thick legs , etc whatever) or do you not care?

[Red_Arrow]

You would wear a sexy dress to look sexy. If it shows flaws instead of looking sexy, you fail in what you are tying to achieve. Like if you have a little extra around the middle, wearing some tight and sexy jeans fails because you end up with fat hanging over.

BUT, there are plenty of sexy things to wear for other sizes. For instance, the same woman above, with a little extra around the middle, would look great and sexy wearing something that shows it without squeezing fat over the jeans. In other words, the style works great for her, just choose the right size.

Clothes can hide perceived imperfections and still make the woman look sexy. But you have to find the clothes that work for your body, not some skinny things you see on the street. Find the clothes that accentuate your good features and hide your less than great features, and you will enjoy an evening in which you never worry about how you look.

[MrOracle]

As long as you don't have rolls of fat sticking out between your clothes or something, you're just fine. You know how to pick out clothes that will flatter you and not highlight your problem areas, and that's all you really need to worry about. No one (except you, apparently) expects you to have the "perfect" body. You can still look sexy without looking like a thin 16 year old.

[curiouschica]

Wear what you feel confident in. If you are second guessing the look and are constantly thinking about extra padding in certain areas and trying to hide it, then it will show in your behavior and body language. A lot of the time though I find that people get around this problem by wearing flowy outfits or vertical stripes or slimming colors...Or you could try to draw attention to the areas of your body that you are proud of (show off your legs so attention is diverted away from your midsection or have great accessories on...things like that). I bet other people aren't as conscious of it as you are though...we tend to be our own worst enemy!

[Anonymous]

Kinda like if you have thunder thighs and not great legs then if you are trying to impress somebody don’t wear shorts. If you have a huge belly don’t wear a crop top, it looks really weird and distasteful. Similarly for back fat and flabby arms. Hourglass and athletic types can get away with anything. Cover up your not so good parts and highlight your best parts.

[MzNatalie]

Size 7 isn't bad...now a size 20 that is a fat person and she should be laying off the Mcdonalds. She actually said that? I'd of told that fat hoe off. Pinche fat putas siempre trying to make skinnier girls feel like garbage.

[TinyTinaWuzHere]

I honestly don't like when big girls wear something revealing... like when you can see the cellulite. Just my opinion...

[Cailleach]

Not in the slightest.

[yagurlnira768]

No, relax...you're ok.

[Asker]

lol, I hate being paranoid

[erekmax]

wouldn't care, the confidence would be a huge turn on if she can carry herself well.

[Philyouup]

what is a perfect body? a woman who had a child, is just as sexy as any other woman..

[Anonymous]

I don't think anyone really cares. Wear whatever makes you most comfortable. In all honesty, no one worthwhile is going around making fun of people who don't have perfect bodies. If anything, they're spending way too much time either worrying about what THEY look like or obsessively gawking at the girls how DO have perfect bodies to worry about anyone else's imperfections.