I love my girlfriend but she lacks sex appeal, what can I do?

[Anonymous]

I love my girlfriend very much and she is so beautiful, but she lacks sexyness. She is a very sexual person meaning she wants it all the time but she's kind of bland it never very hot in bed. She tells me I am the best she's ever had that I was made for her. She has all the curves of a super model but has no idea how to use them. I have great taste and style but often find it hard to be a boyfriend and a guide at the same time. I love her with all my heart for more than just her looks but it would be nice to find my tongue hanging out every once and a while. What can I do about this she wants to be sexier but she feels like she is stumbling in the dark.

[AScott]

giving her suttle compliments without offending her. If she's in bed wearing your tshirt and her legs are hanging out..tell her wow! you have amazing legs, you should show them more often..and start rubbing her legs up and giving them kisses. If my guy said that, then I would definitely wanna show them off more just to tease him. Most girls lack the sex appeal because they are self-conscious and unaware of how great they look. They need a confidence boost. I understand..I go all out for my man and sometime it's like get outta the tshirts and pjs one day and go shirtless around the house:) lol..but we love them, what can we do:) best of luck hun!

[Anonymous]

Give her ideas. Ask her what she'd want to try and say what you'd want to try, and actually do it. I asked my boyfriend differents questions and now we're gonna try some new things.

[Animal_Girl]

Play games, offer suggestions, ask her if she has suggestions, make her feel sexy. Talk to her. :)

[steve1122]

I would love to be her teacher! Seriously, what is the problem here? You are crazy about her, she is crazy about you. She is gorgeous and super sexy. She loves to have sex with you and wants it all the time! And I'm still waiting to get to the part where there is something wrong with this...

You teach her. You patiently guide her. You encourage her to express herself sexually. You tell her she is your dream and your fantasy, and encourage and praise her for every step she takes in the right direction. Tell her what you like, and ask her what she would like..

This was way too easy..

[moloz]

Just talk to her about it, as in give her an honest opinion and express what you want, tell her you'd like to see her legs more or see her in a wet t-shirt, I dunno.

[Anonymous]

If you stop being so judgmental, she MAY become more expressive, just a thought.