Did I give him an erection while we were at the movies on a date?

So me and this guy Logan who I've been getting friendly with from school went out to the movies earlier. We were sat there, and I rested my head on his shoulder while we were in the theater watching the movies. He put his arm around me. But then I started stroking his chest while I was sat there watching the movie, and he started getting a little uncomfortable. He was trying to push my arm off his chest, and he started making a funny quiet nervous sounding laugh. He was like "uhh, umm baby, please don't, lets just watch the movie". Then he kept moving around in his seat and he kept readJusting his crotch and grabbing his Wranglers. He also kept crossing his legs and switching which leg he had over the other one. He kept asking me to stop rubbing his chest while we were sat there. Finally he took his ball cap off and set it in his lap. I asked him what was wrong, and Logan was like "uh, uhm nothing, don't worry about it., just please stop rubbing my chest". I think I might have upset him because I asked him if he was gay for not wanting me to rub his chest while we were sat in the theater. He was like "no, no of course not, but please stop doing that". He kept readJusting his crotch too still. Once the movie was over, he was walking out of the theater a little odd and he wouldn't take his hands out of his pockets. He said he had to use the restroom quickly and needed to clean up some dripping or something to that effect. I asked him if he had an erection while we were in the theater and Logan was just like "I, uhh, don't wanna talk about it, can we not talk about it please?" I have a feeling I gave him an erection. Is it possible if I did, that I made him possibly ejaculate or get some pre-cum? I don't understand why he said he needed to clean something up. Logan has always been pretty shy, and I didn't mean to embarrass him or anything. I just wanted to make it a little romantic while we were there. Did I more than likely give him an erection? I don't really know what say to Logan now. I don't want him to be mad at me either.
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  • Assuming you two ever get sexual. It sure sounds like he got an erection. He's possibly just a virgin who has never had a woman touch his penis before, or even seen it, so he's embarrassed when something you do makes him hard. Things you do were turning him on, and it made him feel awkward. It's also possible he would have came in his pants if you kept doing it, if he didn't already, since he asked you to stop and mentioned dripping. He could use some reassurance that an erection is nothing to be embarrassed about. I know the first time a girl noticed I was hard was pretty awkward, but she deliberately made me hard.

  • Why would he be mad at a woman for giving him an erection? This is a questions sounds like something a girl in middle school might ask.

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  • You can redeem yourself by giving him a handjob the next time (under a ball cap, of course). He will be much less bothered, trust me.

  • I think you just need to let it go and don't talk about it and if it was a big deal he will let you know

  • Ummmm,...

    He definitely had an erection, no question. I would bet five dollars he came in his pants too!

  • Chances are he did have an erection and didn't know how to handle the situation. If he wasn't used to physical contact with a woman then this is likely to have been embarassing for him, but don't feel bad about it, he will be less inclined to react in this way in future.

  • Is your age up there correct? Just curious.

    • I was thinking the same thing.

    • that makes 3 of us

  • Next time try rubbing his thigh!