I don't want my vagina to be looked at or touched?

What would you do if I was your girlfriend? I have a good reason why I don't want it to be touched or looked at. I don't want it touched because I can never get it smooth, you can always feel some stubble & I don't want him to feel my big labia, it's so big you have to separate them to even put a finger inside :( like nearly 2 inches long they feel so fleshy & in the way. So that's why I don't want him to look either. I don't want him to see or feel my ugly beef curtains & ugly razor rash stubbly pubes.
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  • 1. Just wax then

    2. Guys don't care what your vagina looks like as long as they they CAN touch it and see it. Some girls have big labia, some have small labia, both are normal. It's perfectly fine. Your vagina won't run off the guy, but your lack of self-confidence probably would. Don't be so hard on yourslef, if the guy is mean to you because of your vagina then why would you want to do anything sexual with him anyway?

  • Whats sexier than big juicy labia lips? I can't think of any guy that would run away from that.

    Stop focusing on what other people are doing and what you think guys like. It's a vagina, they're going to love it regardlessly.

    Also, if you don't like stubble go get waxed. Don't play the immature game and say its embarrasing... those women have seen and waxed hundreds of vaginas. Its not a big deal to them!

    • LOL! "juicy" visions of sugarplums...etc

  • Overdramatic post looking for guys to bash other labia types...

    anyways, uh, waxing is best, if you prefer not to wax, buy a personal trimmer and "shave" it bare(that's what I do) and get over it. Plenty of guys prefer big labia

    • I'm not wanting guys to bash other labia types! I just dint like mine and don't want anyone to see or touch it! I don't know how to wax... And I'm not going to a professional that's too embarrassing! What's a personal trimmer? Just use a razor.

    • It helped with stubble

Most Helpful Guys

  • That would be really hard on me because I love p******. Big labia, small labia - doesn't matter it's still beautiful to me. The stubble is no problem, I don't mind it at all. What you need is a guy who can break through your defenses and make you feel sexy. I totally wish that upon you!

  • Damn. Sounds like a night in with you would be TONS of fun! What guy could pass that up?

    • How is it tons of fun? It's so unattractive.

    • Says Who?

    • Me. Guys think so too. Otherwise there would be no such thing as a labiaplasty. Women do it to look good for men.

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  • most guys don't care. to be frank with you, it's MORE unattractive when you're shy or embarrassed or telling us not to look. just focus your attention on the task at hand, so to speak.

  • I agree with the anonymous girl below. Waxing would take away troubles of stubble. And most guys don't really care about the specifics of your vagina. I think they would be more focused on trying to turn you on if they've gotten that far.

  • I would go buy you some self-confidence.

    • You can't buy self confidence lol unless you pay for a labiaplasty & laser hair removal for me :)

    • Is it on sale?! Maybe she could get a discount for buying it in bulk because she's going to need a lot of it! :D

    • (I was referring to the self-confidence.)

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  • get a better razor and a mirror, most guys don't care about a little hair

    • I do have a good razor. But I can still feel pricks of hair after shaving.

  • Seriously, you ladies think guys care about this stuff WAY more than they actually do. Some stubble and large labia is a non-issue for 95% of guys.

    I know whatever I say isn't going to change your mind, but really, don't worry about it.

    • Your just saying that to be nice but I know for a fact that most guys don't like beef curtains

    • *You're Some people just don't listen, I guess.

    • Who cares about spelling you nerd! I'm on my phone it's easier to write your.

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  • if I loved you, I'd put up with it, and eventually even begin to be turned on by it.

    • You'd be turned on by not being able to see or touch my vagina?

    • no, by what your vagina looks like.

    • Well you wouldn't be allowed to see it so how would it turn you on? And by saying "eventually get turned on" that means you don't like how it looks when you first meet me?

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  • This is total bullsh*t...I love female organs...ESPECIALLY those of my mate..I want to Look, Touch, Smell, Feel AND TASTE...I don't mind hair..I don't mind pubic hair, I don't mind vaginal discharge, I don't , no... cut..I LOVE vulva discharge and accompanying smell...I don't get weirded out by period blood...and I LOVE my lover's pee...if anyone on the face of this earth wishes to make love to a tree or a barn...then that is fine in my eyes...but I want to love my lover's body & spirit

  • Stop looking at your vj. That's gross. And stop touching yourself so much. Otherwise, you;re going to end up being the only one doing so. Guys don't care about that stuff. What do you think there is, a beauty contest for vj's? Stop shaving & no more stubble.

    Use it for what it's meant for & stop worrying about what it looks like. You'll be fine.

    • Stop shaving? Wouldn't that make it worse? Guys are grossed out by pubes.

  • Hmmm I'd have to say goodbye.

    • Cave bacon is hot, btw.

    • I don't think it's hot at all

    • Well, you're wrong.

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  • could I touch it with my penis

    • If you could do it without noticing my flaws.

    • well then I could deal with it I would sneak peaks though

    • You wouldn't be able to look at it because I would be under the covers.

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  • I have a solution. Laser hair removal. My wife did this and she LOVED the result. As for the large labia. I have another solution! Find a man with an oral fixation/fetish and you will be happy forever. Better yet, he will be happy forever!

    Also, act like you LOVE your assets. Let your partner know how crazy lucky he/she is to have a woman with so much to offer.

  • I seriously don mind touchin o seein your vulva...I don mind if your I i gt some stubble or anythin elz...Tat's oki wid me:):)

  • DONT SHAVE wax:) I have beef curtains too, gah. Its embarrassing, I don't want to go to any nudist beaches or anything, but I take good care of it and make it as pretty as it can be, e.g, regular waxing, and exfoliating, moisturising to make it smooth. I just figure, if its not gonna look p*rnstar ee it might as well be clean and well groomed lol

  • The only unsexy thing about you is your inhibitions.

    Yeah, I got turned on from your description of your labia.

    Some guys may not like it, and others will think you have the sexiest vagina ever. THey'd be fun for oral. And it would be fun to nestle the head of my penis against them before actually penetrating you.

    I like some pubic hair myself, but if you're not happy with how shaving is working, get what you want waxed waxed.

  • I would recommend getting waxed by a professional - that will take care of the stubble. But, there isn't anything you can do about your labila. Most guys honestly will look past that if they like you enough, and if he won't then he isn't worth your time anyways.

    • I'm too embarrassed to get waxed by someone. Can I do it myself?

    • You could, I know some girls who do. It's worth a try, but if that doesn't work I'd go to a pro.