IT TOOK HIM EIGHT MINUTES TO CUMHE MUST BE CHEATING
We're gonna see that question some day
LOLOLOL OH IT IS THIS QUESTION
There are other factors that lead me to this conclusion. I appreciate your help. Thank you
yes. I definatley think he cheated. Because he came home an out of the blue just wanted to have sex. and prior to that we had not done anything in maybe 2 months. if not more. An 4 as long as it was he should of came within seconds. And he sure did not. :(
I'm sorry you are going through this girl...remember that you aren't the problem...if a guy is in a relationship and there are problems with the sex on his end, he's got issues he needs to work out. It was always weird for me with my ex because when we hadn't had sex for awhile he would last forever...guys build stamina. Mine did it mostly with p*rn and masterbation, which I think is just as bad as cheating if it becomes regular while he's neglecting you in the bedroom. Keep your head up:)
Thank you. We've been married for 2 1/2 years now. An he swears up an down that he doesn't masterbate. But yet he gets super defensive about it. Like to yelling point.
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What are the "exceptions" and what do you mean by "compared to his normal"?
I mean, let's say a guy lasts 10 minutes on average, meaning 80-90% of the time, he's going to be in the 8-12 minute range. That's his "normal". "Normal" will be different for each guy.Now, with that said, if he only lasts 3 minutes or less, that's "fast" for him. And if he lasts 20+ minutes, that's "long" for him.Guys can go "fast" because they haven't had sex in a while, or because they're super-turned-on. And they can go "long" because they are distracted or stressed, (cont)
because they are concentrating so that they can enjoy sex longer, because they are drunk or high, or because they just recently had an orgasm.The thing is, you can't know which reason is THE reason unless you ask (and get a truthful answer). Trying to guess based on the symptom is usually going to result in an incorrect guess.
He swears up and down that he doesn't "jack-off". I'm not stupid nor am I nieve. But certain events that occured before points to cheating.
Well this isn't one of them
What exactly can be true? the theory I was told?
Yes...if I have not had sex for awhile than I will come harder and faster and with a bigger load...actually it is just the same as if you went twice in a row...takes me longer to come...maybe don't get as hard and much smaller load of course...but...there can be other factors...for instance if I have taken sudafed..will have problems getting it up and keeping it up..will take longer to come and will not come very hard..
ok so what does it mean when it takes him awhile?
That he's not as excited just to be having sex. He's not desperate.