Finger up the rear??... is this normal for a guy?

Whenever my boyfriend is eating me out I push his head away so that I don't squirt on his face.. yea he gets upset about it.. because he wants me to squirt on him but I'm too chicken sh*t to even do it. When I'm giving him head.. I always go down farther than a woman has ever done to him.. but he keeps asking me to put my finger up his ass... is this normal?
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  • To address the first issue: your Boyfriend obviously knows you squirt and doesn't have a problem with it, so don't be afraid to just let go. Trust him, and be happy that he likes to make you happy.

    To answer the second issue: many men enjoy stimulation of their prostate gland, which is what produces and stores the semen (testicles produce sperm, but sperm is less than 1% of semen). Similar to a woman's G-spot, stimulating a man's prostate, along with other stimulation, can give him a very intense orgasm.

    Is this "normal"? I'm not sure there is a "normal," any more than having or not having anal sex is "normal." It's just something you choose to do or not. Many people refuse any anal play on sheer principle, while many others try it and find it to be very enjoyable. If you are open-minded about it, you may find that you enjoy it too (and enjoy him when he enjoys it). And if not, well, that's okay too.

  • I don't like it when a girl tries to put her finger up my ass but that is just me so yea but I think that he might have a fetish for being in a threesome with two guys and one girl

    • if tht was true.. then he wouldn't b grossed out evrytime I ask him for a threesome with 2 guys & just me

    • hey I ws just giving a suggestion lol I mean not saying he is but most gay guys will not admit they are gay so...

    • omg... thts not funny I've been dating this guy for almost 5 months

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  • I've given up on the concept of normality. If he wants it and you're OK with it, does it matter if it's 'normal' to other people? If he derives pleasure from it, go for it. Also, I'd just like to point out for anyone who's going to say 'OMG that's gay', Gay is who you do, not WHAT you do.

    As for the squirting, just try to push your fear away for one time. You might like it. Obviously, if he's asking for it he WANTS to experience it so he's not going to judge you for that. Sex isn't meant to be pretty, it's meant to be fun and whilst your holding yourself back you're somewhat limiting your potential.

    • Bravo My Friend! Go Flo! lol

  • Prostate stimulation supposedly feels really good to men.

    Yes, it's normal, although there's a misconception that it is "gay" to desire a prostate massage.

    I would try it haha

    link

    • That looks like a nifty little website there. :)

    • Eh no, it's not normal.

  • Some would say it's normal. More than one guy tried to get me to do that with them

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  • I had a guy ask me to do that once.

    You totally get poop on your finger.

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    • Your fav site! :)

    • I don't know as I would go so far as to say that...=D

  • Yuck... finger in the butt? When you pull it out it's going to smell like poop. Especially if he's got a hairy butt hole.

    • Immature answer, but very funny

    • like OMG hilarious...lmao

    • As a man who has a hairy butt I can confirm that even after copious amounts of washing and wiping the inside of my anus still smells like doo doo if I put my finger inside and then smell it.

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  • NOTHING goes in my butt EVER! It is a one way exit ONLY! I was thinking about getting that tattood on my butt. :P Exit only.

  • If You do it right, no poo. Plus, if you milk prostate, he will produce way more cum.

  • Normal? What the hell is normal? I don't do anything digestive: vomit, feces, anal, (I 've done rimming but have no future plans to engage) but lots of people do...can you say preference? You and I would quarrel...we have a perfectly good squirter here but won't squirt me in the face...because?...I like it and want you to? I suppose you would not share your pee with me either...u let him give you oral...so...one out of three ain't bad? Prostitution & p*rn will NOT be going out of business...

  • Yes, my guy loves his prostate being stimulated too. Use a toy if you don't want to use your fingers

  • I don't like that done to me.

    I do like putting a finger up a girls ass when were having sex.

  • I wouldn't do that even if my boyfriend asked... I'm kind of apposed to poo on my fingers

    • OMG me too its gross...

    • Yeah I'd pass on that every time

    • i knw right... but I don't know wht I should do.. because I don't wanna lose him.. but I don't wana put my finger up his ass either

  • Yes, and doesn't mean he's gay

    As you can get stimulation from the prostate(f*** you farkit!)

    Try it as it's like the g-spot which you have

  • i would try it. some guys are into that stuff

    • why? its gross...