Why would a boy touch a girl's butt?

Question

It all started when this guy winked at me while I was swimming in the pool.The next day him and I were the only people swimming in the pool and he said, ''come over here dear''.I came closer.He asked what my name was and everything(flirty way). The thing is while he was talking to me he kept touching my butt! I have to admit that I enjoyed it, it felt like a massage.Why would he touch my butt?Did he want to have sex with me? o: Are all guys like that?

yarow12 · Accepted Answer

No heterosexual guy will touch a female sexually unless he is either interested in having sex with her or just a tease.

If a guy can talk to, flirt with, or holla at you calmly (without being nervous) and/or sexually, then he's used to doing it. Practice makes perfect. What this means to you is up to you.

No, all people aren't certain ways. We are all ourselves in our own way, even when we act the same.

However, depending on where you are on the globe, unless you're in a community/village that doesn't bring it's children up in such ways, most guys you meet will most likely holla at you, rub all over you, and try to hit. It's just common place. This is how many of us are brought up to be. To this day, I am considered weird, stupid, dumb, and gay for not being like every other guy around me-- the guy you mentioned basically. It's considered "cool" and pretty much common sense for a guy to loose his virginity as soon as possible (7+). I still remember elementary school with this mentality. To be called a virgin was and still is an insult. Everyone claimed to not be one, yet maybe ten actually weren't.

As such things as this happen in your life, which they probably will, it is up to you how to handle the situation. You can not let it get to a certain point and not let us hit (don't worry, we'll try again later), go along with it and let us hit (sometimes, that's all we'll want to do), lead us on (be a tease >_<) thus pissing us off or making us want to try again later (can lead to rape if done to the "wrong" one), or get away from us thus pissing us off.

Just know that some guys are going to want to have sex with you, some will try to, some won't care if you don't want to or not and may take advantage of opportunities presented to them, and some will use alcohol and/or drugs such as the date rape drugs which you probably won't see coming unless find out for yourself the indications of them in your and drinks. Think about all the time you leave others, some you didn't even know were there, near your drinks at restaurants, parties, etc. I'm not trying to scare you or anything, this is just reality. Do research on such things to find out for yourself what happens in our world, in our countries, and in our cities.

Live, Love, and always remember: Shit happens.

kemosavy · Accepted Answer

girls butts. I love them. he might love yours. but I think he has sex in mind. he probibly thinks you are hot.

Iloveyoumore · Accepted Answer

haha flirt ;) he likes your butt :) but how old are you and how old is he? because that could be ummm weird!

kheserthorpe · Answer

Guys like girls butts. So he liked touching yours. It means he is attracted to you in a sexual way, he may not have been thinking 'we're having sex soon'.  But he found you desireable.

Xx_DRE_xX · Answer

I mean sure I would touch a girls' ass but maybe if it were okay(like once I got to know a little bit more and we were being flirty/touchy). Guys like to touch butts like how a girl likes to grab and feel over a guys package or abs? I would want sex with you if I did that. But no not all guys are like that lol.