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I think I got my little sisters friend pregnant, advice?

My little sisters friend is really cute and she always flirts with me. One night my sister and parents were out shopping and her friend cane over. I guess she said she left her cell phone over from last night an I let her in. Well long story short we had sex and it's been 6 weeks since then. She says she has been vomiting and feeling sick for a couple weeks. I feel sick myself. This can't happen! She's only 15! What should I do!
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She JUST texted me and she said she wants to tell her mom! WTF! What do I do!
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It's positive. F***
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  • You had incredibly bad judgment and no self control but I'm sure you already know that so I'm not going to nag you because I'm sure a lot of other people will. Unfortunately you made a mistake and this happened, you have to deal with the consequences. Her parents may take it the wrong way and you could end up with jail time, you never know. Get her a pregnancy test though. There's ones that can tell 2 weeks before a missed period so that will definitely help with accurcy although 6 weeks she should have an idea as to if she's late or not by now. A lot of young girls, especially ones who aren't sexually active, tend to overreact with syptoms so there's no real way to tell if she's pregnant or not unless you buy her the test. I strongly suggest being there when she takes it (I don't mean in the same room while she's peeing but in the room next to it). You need to see the results yourself firsthand because this could end up pretty bad for you so you need to know everything that is the truth. If she's pregnant then you need to be there for the child. Of course there's other ways to take care of the pregnancy or going for adoption and that's something that you both need to come to an agreement on. With her age I strongly suggest adoption but that's a hard thing to do and something that you both need to be sure about.

    • I know I f***ed up badly. I feel sick. I can't eat or anything. My parents can't find out about this.

    • You can keep it from them but that's if things don't get too messy. You don't know if her parents are going to press charges on you or not. I think a pregnancy test should happen asap.

  • Ok first you should really talk to your sisters friend about this. Since you're the older one you really need to approach her in a very mature way. I would buy a pregnancy test (a good popular brand they're more accurate eg. first response) since its been 6 weeks she'll be able to take it and get an accurate reading from it. I just went through this thing a yer ago (except I was almost 16 and the situation was vice versa) you really need to be calm especially for her. Many women get moddy when they're pregnant so if she is pregnant she just might be really emotional. I hope this helps and this all works out. Feel free to message me if you have any other questions.

    • Alright where can I get the tests at? I don't know anything about this kind of stuff.

    • Ok you can get them at places like rite aid or even a super market really like tops

    • She said it all ^^ You can get the pregnancy tests at your gas station, grocery store, etc.

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  • I'm 20 and pregnant with my first child. It was a surprise to both me and the father. The father has decided to ditch me, leaving me to do everything alone. Don't be like that. Be calm and supportive. Give her your opinion on what you would prefer be done. But make sure she realizes ALL her options and just be there to comfort her. Abortion is a VERY scary thing, as is being a Mom at a young age.

    I agree with the girls below, get her a test, and just be there for her. She will look to you for emotional support at the least. And then, if you are NOT positive that you are the father, ask for a test.

    • I would never leave my child. And I do like her. We talked quite bait before this. I just don't want a kid. :/

    • Well... You don't know for sure yet. So keep your fingers crossed. I am glad you are willing to step up to your mistakes! That takes a lot of balls. And with her wanting to tell her mom, she will need to tell her sooner or later. Its only a matter of time before she starts showing. But I would MAKE SURE she is preg before she says anything.

    • She's been sick for weeks and said her period is weird but I don't know if I can believe her.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Get her to take a pregnancy test. If it's positive, talk to her about her views on abortion. If she's OK with it, you should pay for most or all of it. You are the adult here.

    Obviously the problem is your sister finding out. That's out of your hands now. It's in the hands of your sister's friend. Tell her that because of the connection you two now have, you'll always be someone she can talk to, but not if she breaks the trust by telling other people about what happened, even your sister.

    • Alright. How much are abortions?

    • In your situation they could be $100,000 and be worth every penny. Take her to planned parenthood, dude. And thank your lucky stars if you get out of this without ruining your life forever.

    • Abortions can range anywhere between $300-1000 Depending how far along and what SHE wants done. Give her all the options, and PLEASE don't force her to choose something she isn't sure what she wants to do

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  • Maybe you'll get lucky and only get raped once a day in prison.

    If you take her to get an abortion because you f***ed up, you'd deserve it.

    • I'm f***in scared man!

    • So do something right for a change and take responsibility for the life you created.

    • I will if she decides to do it. She's going to decide.

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  • Well tell ya the truth , if she's pregnant your screwed ...

    but all you really can do is just hope she's not , but if she turns out be prego be there for her make sure not to just leave and also tell her to take a pregnancy test I went through that crap and the guy left me so I'm stuck at home with a kid at age 17

    • same here I feel your pain and he wants me to save up for a paternity test and doesn't help financially anymore.

    • I have a job and I won't leave her if she is pregnant but I just didn't think this would happen to me. I will support her if it is mine.

    • I know I f***ed up. We had unprotected sex. It was my fault.

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  • Get your affairs in order, do your prison time and prepare to live life as a registered sex offender, there is practically NOWHERE you can live without breaking the distance rules of being around schools, kids or places children congregate. Your life is going to be literally a living Hell.

  • should have wrapped it up

  • buy jail dress and get used to it

    • I'm serious man I'm scared!

    • The jerk who suggested taking her to Planned Parenthood was telling you to take her to a BABY MURDER CLINIC. If she's pregnant, DOES THE BABY DESERVE TO DIE TO PROTECT ANYONE FROM DICTATORIAL ASSHOLES WHO THINK IT'S THEIR DUTY TO FORCE US TO ABIDE BY STUPID LAWS?

    • @MoundPounder man shut yo bitch ass up and keep your dumbass beliefs to your self, They'll do what they want

  • Should have done what I did when I was twelve. My seven and ten year old sisters cried when I worked my five and a half inch cock into their super tight pussies but they got used to it because I fucked them at least once a day. They both had hair on their pussies and bigger boobs within a year. They competed to get fucked more often and longer than the other did. Mom finally caught me just as I was cumming into my 8 yr. old sister and sent me to live with my aunt and uncle. When I got my fifteen year old cousin pregnant I was placed in foster care with a nasty bitch foster mother. One day I spend five hours force-fucking her, when we were alone. She said she'd never come in her life, until that day. I made her come dozens of times. She'd threatened to tell but she'd come so many times, she didn't dare tell on me. She said she was scared that I got her pregnant and she was right but that didn't stop her from sneaking into my room to get hundreds more orgasms.

    • I liked fucking your cousin and especially the bitchy foster mother. She was probably too embarrassed to have anyone (especially her husband) know that she'd been fucked by a kid... and LOVED IT.

    • Man your so lucky you fucked your 7 and 10 year old sisters? That must have been amazing did you fuck them at the same time a lot? The youngest I fucked was 12 and I was twice her age at time im only attracted to girls 14 and under. Id love to fuck a 7 and 10 year old repeatedly like that they probably get so horny and good at it. Do they suck cock good too and like to get jizzed on their faces? Can't wait till covid is over I used to hang around the mall and get girls numbers in middle school and they would sneak out at night and fuck me for hours.

    • @Lobsters Man thats hot

  • was she at least worth the trouble?

    • What do you mean?

    • good f***?

    • It was good. Not worth this though

  • You need to take her to get a pregnancy test. Until that happens don't freak out. She could be stressing out so much about being pregnant that it is making her body sick. The body can show signs of it even when you aren't.

    If she is, it's her choice what she wants to do. It's her body. You just need to be a man and support her. If you were man enough to have sex with her, you have to stick with her. and you might as well brace yourself for your sister knowing. her and your sister are best friends, it won't stay a secret for long.

    • She promised she wouldn't tell. It's been going on for a while. I'm so scared you don't even know.

    • I know how scared you must be... I had a scare last year and I was only 17. But you need to remain calm...if she sees you freaking out she is only going to freak out even more. Take her to a planned parenthood. they can help.

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