Why does he only want kiss me during sex but never outside of it?

My boyfriend used to kiss me all the time when we were casually dating. Now that we are together these past few months he only seems to want to kiss me when he wants something sexually. What is his deal? This irritates me so much. Should I talk to him about it or what?
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  • Going to kind of agree with Red Arrow...

    It sadly sounds like he may only be kissing you to get what he wants. When you were casually dating, he had to make a good impression. But now that he figures he has you, you're seeing more of what he's really like.

    The old bait and switch! It's fairly common.

    Best case is that maybe he's just not that much of a romantic guy.

    Worst case is he's just using you, or has some reason for not being intimate with you (he's lost interest or is cheating on you).

    You should also ask yourself if he just stopped kissing you regularly, or he's become less intimate in other ways too?

    • He's always all over me nonstop, he used to not be as much when we started dating. Yes I agree with you, when it comes to him possibly using me. I have yelled at him for that and I have thought that for a while, thank you!

  • Kissing is affection. Sounds like the only time he wants to be affectionate with you is when he is horny. Sounds like you are being used as his sex toy. Of course, we haven't heard the other side of the story. Talk to him, but listen with a critical ear. It may be time to move on to someone who really cares for you.

    • Oh I listened to his side of the story but it was the other stuff afterward that ended my relationship with him. Thank you so much for your help!

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