Why don't guys like to kiss?

I mean to like make out hard core all guys want to do is have sex all this sex but no foreplay? Wtf? for play is the best part! What gives?
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  • I think that's just the guy you're dealing with or a select few because I dated a guy who couldn't keep his lips away from me! :P We never had sex, we never did anything sexual, he wasn't my boyfriend yet, and he would kiss me all of the time. There was no such thing as one peck or just one passionate kiss with him. It always had to be followed by at least five more pecks all around my face. So yeah, there are guys out there who love kissing and showering their girl with affection :)

  • hmm never had this problem before. I dated a guy once who would only make out with me when we were about to have sex, outside of the bedroom he would only give me light little kisses but I didn't mind that because I always knew when I was gonna get a little something something

  • Sorry hun, but it sounds like the guy just doesn't like you like that. If a guy cares about you and is into you, he'll want to kiss. But if he just wants no kssing and sex, then he just views you as a sex object and he's only in it for the p****.

    • that may be the case. But there are other guys who won't even kiss

    • I don't think that the case. I tell him I need more time to enjoy it! he says and I quote "baby you get me so hard so fast I just have to look at you and it's ON." I think it's bull! You guys get a hard on that fast?

    • QA, it might be bull. I've noticed guys will just say stuff like that because they think it's charming and impressive. snowboarder720, that really sucks. I hope I never end up with a guy like that. it would be terrible.

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  • For me, it's the level of love I feel for the girl. The more I'm in love with her, the more I wan to kiss her. If I have little or no romantic emotional feeling for her, I really don't feel like kissing.

    So if your guys are anything like me, they don't love you as much as they could.

  • I love kissing and I love foreplay. It's a stereotype I found not to be true, every guy I know loves foreplay. Maybe we just don't like to do it as long as you do.

    You try having a boner pressing inside your pants and not wanting to get them off as soon as possible.

    • I mean I thought of that. I just don't work as fast! I tell him I need more time to enjoy it! he says and I quote "baby you get me so hard so fast I just have to look at you and it's ON." I think it's bull! You guys get a hard on that fast?

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  • ""baby you get me so hard so fast I just have to look at you and it's ON." I think it's bull! You guys get a hard on that fast?"

    yes! It can happen in a mere 5 seconds.

  • in my experience men get aroused and exited a lot quicker then women so like to get straight to the point, well some of them anyway if you prefer the foreplay have you thought of going down the lesbiaan route ?

  • we are guys, we love sex. Personally I don't mind foreplay, but that just gets us wiled up for sex.

    • so don't you like forplay as an act? only as preparation for sex?

  • The kissing part is awesome, I think you might be mistaken the fact that most guys prefer sex to kissing given the choice. But the make out part is deffinitly good :P

  • This guy likes it.

    *Thumbs uping towards myself*

  • My guy LOVES it. I'll try to give him a peck on lips as a goodbye, and he always pulls me tighter to make out for a bit before I can go. He'd kiss me for days if I let him.