Should I give up on looking for a virgin girl

[DragonLord]

Hi everybody I like to Ask everybody opinion I'm 23 years old I'm an American male virgin(white American) yes like I said I'm still a virgin it just annoys me that most women/most young girls I didn't say all I say most that they have sex with bad men you know like jerks,thugs,players,men whores,etc.etc. and give us good men/nice guys bad reputation and we get left overs plus yes I'll admit I'm super skinny and I know I'm not good looking so should I give up on looking for a virgin girl because my dream girl that I want to marry is a virgin girl because I'm saving my virginity for marriage and that's my dream wedding and the second part of my question is are virgin girls dead and/or am I wasting my time looking for a virgin girls/virgin women to date/marry I swear most women/most girls are such lying filthy cheating whores sluts and bitches I repeat I say most not all I say most if you think I should keep looking where should I look for virgin girls/virgin women so you know I'm nice sweet caring good guy and I'm sensitive to girls feelings I'm not a abusive douche and I never will be abusive like I ask Should I give up on looking for a virgin girl since I'm a virgin as well and if you want add tips as well then that's fine thanks if not I understand

[udolipixie]

Virgin girls exist except often times if they're not of a certain attractiveness they are overlooked.

"that most women/most young girls I didn't say all I say most that they have sex with bad men you know like jerks,thugs,players,men whores,etc.etc. "

^ lol you know the type of guys most women have sex with or are you judging the majority by the character of women you know

"we get left overs"

^ lol women are leftovers now...don't get p*ssy if you get called a freak/creep

"yes I'll admit I'm super skinny and I know I'm not good looking so should I give up on looking for a virgin girl "

^ only if you're expecting a beautiful virgin girl..they exist but why should she get a guy whose into her looks but doesn't want to be judged by his looks

"I swear most women/most girls are such lying filthy cheating whores sluts and bitches I repeat I say most not all"

^ lol if a girl said something similar about guys she'd be told that it's her taste and that's the type of guys she's attracting or is attracted to so...don't call the type of women you like the majority

lol all this kind heart, nice, sweet, caring good guy details about yourself is bs and irrelevant.

You're not entitled to what you want in a girl because you're a good guy.

Girls don't date guys solely for those qualities they date/want guys they find attractive to have those qualities.

Find a virgin girl who finds you attractive.

[DragonLord]

I'm not being mean I'm just letting everybody know what's going on in the community like some of women and some of girls don't value their virginity anymore as they should instead they gave it to any guys she sees it all of us good people a bad name bad reputation and I like to ask you miss what's going in our community if you don't mind

[udolipixie]

That's what going on in your community. Unless you know every girl & the type of guy she has sex with it's nonsense to state most girls have sex with bad men. In my community girls have sex with guys they're attracted some are good guys & some aren't but the girls in my community aren't crybaby cows who blame a few guy's actions on the majority like you seem to be doing with women

[DragonLord]

whoa whoa I'm not I'm only asking everybody opinion and can I ask where can I star my search plus I've seen some stupid stuff and bad stuff happen to good people here in America most women is selling her virginity like one is selling hers for a iphone4 I was only asking for help is that wrong for me to ask for more help so I can understand where to start searching

[udolipixie]

Start searching for women who aren't what you'll call attractive. lol iphone4 so what at least she's trying to get something out of it. Most guys are trying to give away their virginity or pay someone to take it.

[ezpowell]

I once heard someone say that virginity must be gotten over, not cherished. A woman once told me that sex with a boy who was a virgin was just terrible sex. She was very good and probably hasn't been a virgin for a very long time. As a man? You need some skills dude because no matter who you find if you can't get her off she might one day find a man who can - sex is not about innocence, the first time for a man is usually quick and disappointing (not always) and the first time for a woman is usually painful (not always). Fact is when I was young I had no f***ing clue. I'm middle aged and I probably still have no f***ing clue, but being humble is always a good approach because you can always find something new to learn. Women are paradise - DO NOT DENY YOURSELF! It's f***ing unnatural dude - your ball might explode :) Just kidding. But you might come in your pants and she might giggle or laugh at you, which won't make you feel good. Personally, I wish I could still come in my pants - it was all so very much simpler then. Then again, as I get older I don't care so much anymore - all I really want is great big titties and a pleasant disposition who laughs at my jokes and makes me feel like a man - so I'm simple maybe - you're making it too f***ing complicated - go out and get laid dude :) And if you're looking for a virgin girl? I never met one. Not that I know of at least :) ANd I might not have wanted the complexity of it anyway.

[Yukey]

Spoken like a real pervert The only reason people think that sex is natural to have as soon and as much as possible is only because its advertized as such everywhere The masses thought that some women were witches and they should be burned, were they actually right? Nope PS I'd rather sleep with a virgin than some overused man-slut :)

[israelisevil]

or you'll find sex can't make you cum wich is while good for her makes sex sad and empty

[Starbers999]

Well I'm 33 and I am - never even hugged a man! (people don't believe me when I say I have never been out with anyone). Are you a Christian? I think you should look for someone with Christian values because religious people are more likely to wait until after marriage. I'm a Muslim, that's my reason - I have grown up with wanting to *try* and doing right by my religion.

[0007-h]

Damn 33! How are u feeling about it? Is that Ok? How are u doing?

[fannixo]

Me too! But I'm not a Christian

[Anonymous]

As much as I wanna empathize with you, your aggression makes you come across bad, even if you're a saint. So do yourself a favor and maybe obtain clear, rational thought before making a post like this. And maybe then, as someone who's in a similar position minus the entitlement issues, I can try to empathize with you and support you.

[ksmbutt]

same thing as finding a four leaf clover. you'll spend a sh*t load of time looking for one and you still probably won't find one. the reason you never find them is because they don't stick out. it's only when you look closely and count the leaves that you can see the difference. know what I mean?

[Yukey]

Nah its not dead (though in America peer pressure and hormones make stupid teenagers do it the first chance they get)

Though you might have a hard time finding one

If worst comes to worst you'd have to date outside of your race (asian for ex) or country

I've just turned 20 and am still a virgin, and plan on keeping it for marriage too :)

Dont lisen to expowell

Virgins prefer virgins, most "more experienced people" (aka sluts) prefer their own

Thats just the way it goes

If you marry a partner, the worst situation you'll get is learn from each other from there

And I aggree virgins are the good guys

Most young girls have sex (instead of waiting) bcause of their partners and a little bit of curiosity, otherwise theyd be able to wait until AT LEAST 18

Thhey're like this because that's what they see the society expecting from them

So don\t give up, if you want a vigin girl, get a virgin girl, maybe slowly, grls will start having more dignity :/

[ilovecookies]

A lot of Asian women are virgins till marriage, if you are interested O.o

PS: I'm a virgin, and the men I've met were all very nice men, not all women love douches. I actually like introverted, aloof, quiet men.

[DragonLord]

OK thanks for the help and thanks for giving me hope and I'm sorry about my question I just confuse I just asking for any help and where can I look thanks for being nice about it and I'm not being mean about what I said I'm just confuse about what is going on in America

[DragonLord]

and can I ask you ma'am do Asian women like geeks as well as virgins I ask because I'm more into video games and computers and yes I love computers and I love video games don't worry I still have other hobbies

[ilovecookies]

I've been to America a lot of times, it's okay dw. I do not think you are bothersome, and I don't mind helping you. If you would like me to help you in anything else, I'm here :) PS: I do tend to find a lot of American women lossing their virginity at a very early age, and mostly for lust instead of love. Don't hurry love, you're to find someone who is compatible with you, someone just nice and pretty isn't enough. It is someone who can understand/complete you, make you feel satisfied and happy

[ilovecookies]

Most Asian men are into those things. It's about your personality and how you come forth as. What is important is that you have a stable income, are nice, and clean looking (as in good hygiene).

[DragonLord]

thanks for your understanding ma'am can you answer my question in my 2nd comment I gave you or if you don't know I understand

[ilovecookies]

Just saying, there are more Asian women that are virgins, but there are still American women who are virgins by choice. On the other hand though, I think American women face a lot more pressure into losing their virginity than others. (It's like if you're not cool if you don't lose it or something. I don't know why there is a trend in US about losing their V-cards in prom really...So much pressure for these girls...)

[DragonLord]

if you don't mind please read my profile carefully then tell me what do you think

[ilovecookies]

I'm actually Asian... Uhmm I think I answered you.. I said most Asian men are into those things so I don't think it would be a problem. I mean, I grew up in the west, so that's just an assumption. What matters is a stable income, nice personality and good hygiene... among other things.

[DragonLord]

and my mother is way over protective of me won't let me move out so read my profile then you know more about me

[ilovecookies]

I cannot speak for another woman, and those info you gave are just pretty superficial, I think a lot of men fit that critique. Women care about details (how you behave and what you do), which cannot be explained in words. I hope you are lucky and find the woman for you :)

[DragonLord]

i hope so too you are lucky you found yourself a good man congratulations thanks for your input

[ilovecookies]

Oh, I don't have a boyfriend, but I have had very nice boyfriends in the past :)

[ilovecookies]

You're welcome :)

[celin98]

yeah, it's hard to find a virgin girl who is virgin nowadays. only very lucky men can have a virgin girl. only if Allah loves that guy and send him a pure angel virgin girl😇 then he can have a virgin girl😉😏😏 God has to love a man so that he can send him a virgin. and my boyfriend is loved by god cos he has a virgin, pure angel girlfriend😇😇😊

[nonameme]

There are virgin girls looking for you and asking the same question.

[DragonLord]

thanks for your opinion but can I ask where do you think I should start my search

[nonameme]

I don't know. I have seen several girls on here asking this question but the genders are reversed.

[DragonLord]

thanks and I'm sorry about my question I'm just confuse of what can I do so I'm sorry if my question offend you

[nonameme]

Why would your question offend me? It only offends me when I hear guys who have been with lots of girls expect a virgin girl to marry them. If you hold yourself to the same standards you hold women then I have no problem.

[DragonLord]

OK I understand

[Cantremember]

"us good men"

So the vigin guys are the good guys? I find that a bit bigheaded.

[DragonLord]

I'm talking about some of us are good men who still are virgins then if we ask her out she said unquote you're such a nice guy I don't want to ruin our friendship or she says these two lines you're too you're too nice of a guy to date then she date a jerk then tell us she is sorry either she picks me us first or we are gone and we will never come back that's bottom line because I'm not playing her immature games

[markscott]

There are plenty of virgin girls. You just have to look in the right places, and not over look girls who are party animals or the life of the party.

[Tamera952]

In a word, yes. Move on & quit fixating on it.

[Bradm01]

homes I'm in the same boat as you...just hang in there..there are plenty of Virgin girls..and you'll find one..just hold your head up..

[DragonLord]

OK thanks can I ask where do you think I should start looking

[Bradm01]

lol like I said I'm in the same boat as you..but I guess if you look in the Right places like a church, or maybe a girl who works..if I knew I would tell ya...but the only ones runnin around me are Big Time Party Girls..who like drugs, sex, and don't give a damn about you..

[DragonLord]

pardon my language but f*** that's messed up man OK thanks for telling me

[GodzillaMan]

Yup! All the virgin girls are dead. There was a virgin hunt down the other day so they're all dead! Apparently they missed you... Watch your back and keep your gun loaded. Otherwise looks like you're out of luck.

[DragonLord]

you know what I mean by"are virgin girls dead?" was a expression right of our troubling times

[GodzillaMan]

Yeah, I gotcha! I personally don't think it count's as "troubling times" but that's just my opinion. Dude, I'm sure if you just keep on looking you will find PLENTY of virgin girls. I'd say about 50% of my friends are virgins.

[DragonLord]

thanks man I'm not going to deal with sluts if you catch my drift

[GodzillaMan]

There are pleanty of guys too who have the same thinking as you. But just a tip, If you're gonna go around saying that you have a "kind heart", don't generalize every non-virgin as a slut. Teenagers are full of horomones and in these "troubling times" they now have loads of peer pressure.

[DragonLord]

I'm not saying that I'm talking about some women complain there is no nice guys around she think it's funny and years later want us to take her and her babies why we get baggage issues and diseases next thing she betray us when she should've keep her legs shut unless she found a right guy or save it for a time or save it till marriage I've seen many good men get rejected then she comes to him may I ask why she do this to herself

[GodzillaMan]

I only understood parts of that... what? You're asking why girls have sex?

[DragonLord]

whoa whoa what I meant was women have sex with jerks then she cries after she is treated badly what we suppose to do treat like that she is either stupid or she need to wake up

[GodzillaMan]

Because those jerks trick girls into thinking they are nice guys, or pressure them into it. Shit happens.

[DragonLord]

why women don't pay attention when he really is a big fat jerk then all of sudden you guessed it boom baby boom she cry because she is mistreated then boom she go the nice guy for help that's why I ask why they give us crap they said we are sorry for rejecting you when they pick us last and we moved on then she get jealous of our new girlfriend

[DragonLord]

and what if he really is a jerk from the start then she still goes out with him

[GodzillaMan]

If you got a new girlfriend then why are you even asking this question? I don't know dude, everyone's situation is different.

[DragonLord]

I'm still single I'm talking about if they see you move on then they get jealous of that you moved on and got a relationship and I'm still single and I'm still looking

[Aeons]

Hey. Shit happens is right. My girlfriend went out with four guys before me, all of which revealed themselves to be major jerks. Fortunately she was never gave into any pressure to have sex, and is still a virgin, like me. But you can't blame girls for going out with jerks or players. That's what they do, they "play" girls and make themselves look like a nice guy, then break their hearts and sometimes take their virginity too. It happens.

[DragonLord]

@Aeons I hope I find somebody strong as her who don't give in to the peer pressure and I hope she save it till marriage like I do any advice would help thanks

[Aeons]

Well I don't know how much advice I have. I can say where you're probably not going to want to look: The club/party/drug scenes, that plenty of girls are a part of. From my experience these aren't the kind of people saving themselves for marriage.

[BKLodhi]

No. Stay strong and don't loose hope.

[yagurlnira768]

yes you should.

[fannixo]

I'm a virgin and I'm alive lol
But most girls nowadays all have lost their virginity

[israelisevil]

Virgin girls bad at fucking rare and ones that older 18 most likely waiting till marriage and won't marry virgin guy.

Girls dont like jerks they like people they can trust and make feel safe. Yah a lot good girls like guys who live outside law with guns because they live life outside social norms and have a different set of morals that arnt spoonfed to them by society but even then they wouldn't be with guy who doesn't value them.

Unless a girl or guy Cheats, or has sex reason besides physical pleasure they not a whore player slut jerk etc

[chrismarie5589]

lol let me just tell you that we exist. I would never think to give my viriginiry to someone who isn't my husband

[yp9209]

This is the best value.

[yp9209]

I am looking for a virgin too, so I kinda understand you. That's really so annoying most girls do it with the types of guys you had mentioned and then after few partners find that nice guys are better for being their husbands but they can't delete their past.

[furlee33]

really

[zzsunshinegirlzz]

I'm 20 and I'm a virgin waiting for marriage. I thinknita a great thing morally to wait. Shows that you have standards.

[yp9209]

That's fantastic. I'd wish to know that there are more girls like you and I'd wish to know them over where I live

[2MuchSuave]

Never give up

[Anonymous]

I know it's hard to find virgin girls nowadays , but that doesn't mean that all girls aren't virgin , there are still some good nice caring loving virgin girls , and to be honest with you , I'm virgin and I'm keeping it for my marriage , because I believe that nobody worth to take my virginity than my future husband !

[Anonymous]

I'm still alive, I'm 23

[yp9209]

Awesome. I'm 25 and still with vcard

[Opinion Owner]

@yp9209 nice. Are you waiting for marriage too?

[yp9209]

Yes, I'd like to if I'll find virgin girl of course