Why do a lot of guys deny masturbating?

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Maffeo · Accepted Answer

Just thinking about the topic seems childish, which might be a big part of the reason why some older guys would deny it. As a young kid its probably to most fun you could have by yourself, and depending on the company, it may also be an enjoyable joint venture. I mean think about how different age groups would respond to the question. We got the standard Men that know its understood they guy do it, and the Young Men that almost brag about it.

A guy gets to the point when, probably around the rebelling age, that he really doesn't give a damn about what people think. The time when what's bad and good reverse roles. When he becomes an adult, he becomes what he determined a proper adult should be. An image based on those he knew and the various positive role models he had. What isn't included in the ideal man that a guy what's to be one day, are the traits that are too closely associated with being a kid.

At this point you might be able to exclude social awkwardness if only based on the countless movies and shows that rely on penis jokes and spanking monkeys, because people tend to not really give a damn and just think its funny.

Something that may have been socially hot-wired into us are the double standards of men and women. The whole women making babies and needing to be picky about their partners so that they don't waste their limited number of eggs, and the men needing to share their genetic information to all who happen to receive it, all for the sake of continuing existence. Excessive rubbing of the fireman to put out the flames could be thought of as a waste, taking away from a man contribution to the gene pool. Instead, he should be bettering himself to make him a more preferable mate.

My thoughts are running around about more than what I'm managing to write, but this is my general answer: It's similar to how to a rich upper echelon type of person wouldn't admit to eating in a fast food restaurant. A guy look down on himself on satisfying another basic need with such readily available means.

WayTooPopular · Accepted Answer

Cause girls think it's weird that guys jack off, and act weird about it when we admit it, and think less of us for it even though we're just being honest so we deny it.

If you start off asking the dude in a way to really make him comfortable, he will be less likely to deny it and be like "hey could you help me out, I was just really curious about how often guys, you know, jack off or whatever, like when do you do it?"

if he looks a little nervous immediately continue with more stuff like "it's cool, just be honest, I was just wondering" or "sorry I know it's a really weird girl question but its just something you can't read from cosmo"

if you mean why do we deny jacking off when we're cornered caught in the act, it's because most girls think it's kind of like cheating when a guy jacks off.

They think it's wrong for us to do it for whatever stupid reason, so we gotta deny it, even when it's obvious, because if we just be like 'oh yeah I was jackin off why don't you f***in knock like a normal human being jesus' girls get pissed at us for thinking that jacking off is acceptable.

Marie099 · Accepted Answer

Lol my fiance denied it the same day I caught him doing it. I asked him why he denied it and he didn't give an answer. My best friend on the other hand is very open and will tell anyone he masturbates. All guys are different. lol there's no real way of knowing if he denies it unless you catch him!

Deeplove55 · Accepted Answer

They feel that if they say they masturbate it'll seem like they not getting any.  Its an ego thing.

LuvTheBeach555 · Answer

For the same exact reason girls deny it... Everybody does it, even if it isn't that often but everybody does it... It is made out to be desperate or you can't get laid so you masturbate, It is really more about the impression you generally get when your younger and now it is just something that you won't admit...

Sweetfeetpeet · Answer

I never deny it. I am a switch hitter. I like to use both hands.

Giddyup · Answer

Most normal guys in committed relationships will deny masterbating to there significant other to save themselves humiliation.  We hate nothing more than a negative reaction or a fight with or lover.

johnsmith2116 · Answer

I don't know, I guess they are embarrassed to admit it.  Really it's one of those questions that doesn't even need to be asked, because it's safe to assume that they do it.

jkremis23 · Answer

I have never denied it since I started. I whack it 5-10  times / week and idc who knows lol it feels good and keeps me abstinent, more for the fact that I'm single tho so id be abstinent whether I wanted to or not lmao

cardioman65 · Answer

The same reason women deny it.  It is an embarrassing topic.  I denied it to my ex girlfriend when she found my porn mags!  She asked me what do I do with them.  I said, I look at the pictures.  I guess people can think you are a perv.

Rexrex · Answer

Most guys don't deny it.

Black-stick · Answer

I'm a 32 year old man I've been doing it since my teen years in my opinion as human beings we are sexual creatures and masturbation is the way to relief your body of your sexual desires it's just natural regardless if you're in a relationship or not

Chronicjo · Answer

I think that masturbation is kind of a personal subject. For example when I was younger I avidly denied masturbating until my therapist informed me that masturbation is nothing to fret about. My therapist told me that 50% of all boys teenagers and men will admit to masturbating. And the other 50% well they're lying of course. I think it's just a private thing. Although I love circle jerks and come contests and I have become a lot more bisexual than I was. And the first time I had anal sex and a sizable penis inside of me my boyfriend was 11 in it was a little painful. However after a minute or two it started to feel extremely pleasurable there was still some pain but it was a pleasant kind of pain it was a pain that felt good. And if you really want to blame someone for turning me on to taking penis and my backside you would have to direct that statement to my wife at the time who insisted on pegging me with a strap-on dildo. Then the most amazing thing happened I wasn't even masturbating or touching my penis and then all of a sudden my penis shoots everywhere I mean come shoots everywhere. So I love getting fucked. I would do it 5 6 times a day if I could. Because it feels that freaking good. A lot of dudes are like my behind and my butthole is an exit not an entrance. However honestly I feel bad for the men and boys who have never experienced the penis or a dildo inside of their butt. It is exquisitely pleasurable. And I love it and maybe it's a little gay because a guy with a penis is penetrating my butthole with his big fat penis. But the feeling it gives just can't be diminished. I will continue to partake in anal sex. And I will have zero shame zero regret or zero guilt. I love penis inside of me.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol I never deny it, I've had a couple girls ask if they could help, of course it almost always turns into sex and then I give them the best orgasm, and they always call back for more lol.

Anonymous · Answer

Coming from my point of view, I wouldn't admit it either. Masturbation is usually viewed as disgusting or as an act of desperation and no one wants to be seen in that way. It's all a matter or reputation.