I've never given a blowjob before, advice?

[Anonymous]

So, I've started dating this new boy, and he's only the second boy I've had sex with.. My previous boyfriend never wanted me to give him a blowjob, because he said "you don't get blowjobs from your girlfriend...you get them from hoes" lol. But, my new boyfriend asked me If I've ever done it before, and if I'd try it... Well, I have nothing wrong with it, at all, and I'm comfortable enough with my boyfriend to do it. I told him I'm kind of shy, and he said he'd guide me through it... But, before I try it, I'd like to have a few tips or techniques so I can surprise him a bit. (: So girls and guys, how do I give the perfect blowjob?!? THANKS! :D xoxoxo

[queenofpeen]

Warning to readers: this might get graphic.

Just take your time at first. Start with a slow handjob (kind of teasing him, getting him ready), then kiss his belly and hips, then his penis. Kiss and lick it for a while, just getting acquainted with it. I like to swirl my tongue around the tip, lick him from base to tip, and tongue his frenulum (the spot on the underside of the head of his penis). Take the tip/head into your mouth, then move your mouth up and down, gradually taking more of his penis into your mouth each time you move down, and gaining speed. Hold the base steady with your hand (or a couple of fingers) this whole time, or else it's going to be hard to keep it still, haha. Use your hand to stroke the rest of the shaft that you can't fit into your mouth. Keep it in rhythm with your mouth, like your mouth and hand are a neverending vagina :P If it gets tiring, you can simply give your jaw a break by using only your hand for a bit.

Eye contact also adds a big visual turn-on for most guys.

Those are the basics... Oh, ask him to tell you when he's close to orgasm, so you can really focus on keeping a good rhythm. If he's about to orgasm and you pause, it won't happen :P You should keep up a solid pace (like a handjob) once you reach the "home stretch," or the blowjob is going to take longer than necessary. And be careful about your teeth!

Most importantly, enjoy it :) I've found that one of the most appreciated parts of a blowjob is enthusiasm.

[sigsauer45]

What she said is right on the money

[Craig69]

Gosh, can I be your next Boyfriend when you hopefully get dumped? Your description of what you do is HOT!

[Asker]

That's a great answer! Thanks a bunch girl! Now I won't be so nervous my first time (:

[SixFootSexy]

Lots of spit. Yes, please blow me, queenofpeen. You have great potential to make me a very happy man. lol.

[nothingtosee]

Ok WOW! That was hot! Have you ever fantasized about giving a class on it? Teaching women, in person how to do that? I think that would be SO hot!

[RebeccaSJ]

I lick around it, take it in, lick some more, take that in, until I've got it all. And I don't neglect the balls. I gently roll them around. That's a real turn-on for guys. You'd be amazed how hard you can get him!

[nothingtosee]

Wow! That is so hot! I think you should teach a class on it!

[funcluck]

Marble mouthing is great that is when you put the head and shaft in your cheek harmonica style is also bomb, from underneath the shaft and tip, a great alternative if you don't like swallowing,also when you go down on his **** make sure you apply slight pressure down his shaft just enough to make his skin a little tight you don't have to slide it back because your mouth pulls back as you suck, and one more thing make sure your throat is lined up with your mouth so it can relax around his **** like looking up a slight bit, when doing that use your hand to limit your **** intake so you don't choke or he forces his **** to far down your throat.Have fun that's what it's all about. SKIP

[KERMlT]

Does he know how to give you the best cunnilingus? Practice makes perfect so they say. Just do it and have him tell you what feels the best. Each person is different so what you read or hear might not work with this bloke.

[Asker]

Well, I don't get it. :P And you're right... I can't be the best my first time, right? (: Thanks

[nothingtosee]

My advice, tell him you want to do some role playing. Ask him to teach you how to give a really good blowjob. Tell him you want him to be the teacher and you, the perfect student. As you're sucking him, tell him you want him to give you LOTS of feedback. It's that kind of role playing that will make you amazing in bed! Good luck!

[ManFromHat]

You think too much, it's just sex, not a sky rocket science. If you need some tips, check out Jack's Blowjob Lessons

[lostpleasehelp81]

Imagine yourself doing it and enjoy your imagination.When you do it shut your eyes.After a few min ask him to f*** your mouth.I love to suck so will you

[aaronante]

queen pretty much nailed it..she was a man in a previous life I think