Do guys like when girls cry during sex?

not sobbing lol , but like tears rolling down her face while she's moaning, or having tears in her eyes..is that a turn on or turnoff?
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  • Sort of a turn on to me if I would deeply understand why she cries. And hopefully, the reasoning is because that the girl has full trust with me, she feels truly emotionally connected, and feels protected.
    If im wrong about it though and notice something isn't right, of course I'd be worried for her and stop to communicate if she's actually feeling pain or another reasoning. So the crying can be an either or for me. Turn on if its because like what I mentioned in the first part above of positive happy emotions, turn off if she's actually feeling sharp pain so I will risk hurting her further.

  • wow I guess I'm a weirdo but it will turn me on...mainly because I would think they are tears of joy and pleasure rather than pain, especially if she's into it and moaning, or whatever. first, I would ask if she's okay, and if she smiles and nods then I would keep going. it would probably make me shed tears too, and would want me to just hold and embrace her...i would wipe the tears from her eyes and look into them whispering to her softly and gently. then afterward we will talk about why there were tears.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I have cried during sex because I was so overwhelmed with love and joy, my bf asks if I'm ok and I just nod my head and pull him closer to me. The intimacy can be really overwhelming at times because I love him so much, its very intense for me I guess because we don't get to make love as often as we'd like.

  • One time right after sex when we were going to bed, I looked at my phone and my best friend had sent me text saying he's going to really miss me when he moves. I started crying and I felt so bad for the guy. I'm sure it was so awkward. I don't think crying is every a good thing during sex.

  • This is a good thing because it means she is having an amazing time, just make sure he knows the reasons so he doesn't think you are crying because you are upset.

    • I agree absolutely with what you said.

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  • Generally, it is a turn-off because the guy is going to worry that something is wrong, either she's in physical pain or emotional pain (the latter usually being worse). But in the right context, where the girl is either feeling hyper-emotional (in a good way) or is physically overwhelmed with pleasure, then it isn't a problem, because we understand where the tears came from.

  • I'd figure I was boring her or something.

  • I would assume something was very very wrong. Definitely not a turn-on.

  • I'd be pretty worried unless shed explained this might happen and was not a bad thing.

  • I don't really like it much when a girl cries when she's happy; I often think of crying as a negative emotion as it sends the wrong signals. During sex it would be awkward. If I saw her crying I'd probably stop right away for fear I'm doing something to inflict pain. So no, it isn't a turn on.

  • Turn off. Major major turn off.

    • yeah i would think so.

  • hmm... I would think she's in some kind of pain :/

  • What the f*** ..

  • God i hope not

  • If she is crying more with pleasure than the pain, it is a major turn on. If she is uncomfortable , I would stop though. My current girl enjoys a bit of pain after she is turned on.

  • I would like it lol. I would take it as a sign I was performing well

  • Absolutely no. that would make make me want to stop and think I was hurting her or something dont.. and if the guy likes it he is likely a sociopath

  • That would be weird. I would think something is wrong.

  • Not that it would turn me off but it would distract and confuse me.

  • No crying please.

  • I've only experienced that one time. Actual sobbing and loud crying. Freaked me the hell out. I thought I was going to be accused of rape.

  • It would turn me on. Personally, I love seeing tears in a girls eyes during sex. I would go harder and start kissing her.

    • you're insane. lets fight

  • My bf told me he likes it when I cry from the pain he causes me during sex or when we're having sex and I don't want it and it hurts my feelings so I cry. I want to know why he likes it because this makes me feel really bad and unloved that he is enjoying causing me misery during sex so much that when it's to the point of me crying it turns him on even more. Why does he like it?

    • It sounds like he's into some sort of rape fantasy.

    • I’m actually like that too. I can tell you that for me, my wife crying during sex makes me feel like I’m getting a virgin. Like she’s so unfamiliar with sex that it hurts her. Obviously she doesn’t ever WANT sex because it’s always hurt, but I kindof like that too. Like she’s super pure and innocent, and like she’s letting me do whatever I want and taking the pain just to please me. It’s sexy if you think about it. She says she wouldn’t change anything. That she is proud of my penis size, and that she brags to her friends about how rough I am and how much it hurts and that the rapey nature of our sex makes her feel desirable and like I can’t help myself and she feels taken care of and enjoys my strength for some reason. Women are complicated what can I say?

  • not gonna lie that would freak me out a bit.

  • I cried a bit once and my boyfriend freaked because he thought I was in pain. I wasn't but I guess I was just really into it? I don't know. So I'm going to say it's a turn-off.

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