Seriously, girl's butts are sex symbols. I mean, why do we buy expensive jeans. I think just about every guy has some interest in anal sex. There's another thread right now about anal sex, see my post there for more info.
The bottom line, he's not weird, and you'll probably really enjoy anal play if you give it a chance and do it safely. I love anal sex: it just takes some learning how to do it right and enjoy it. It's another highly sensitive part of your body to enjoy.
Well said!
Great post! It is also why girls buy thongs...
He shouldn't have put anything in her ass w/o permission!
What is does is shocks your muscle so you p**** will tighten I have had this done it was a shock but it makes an orgasm more intense it is not bad it just means that he wants to experiment
Does this mean my p**** is not tight enough if he was trying to make it tighter? Do guys just not care if their fingers smell like shit?
It is not that your p**** is not tight it gives them more pleasure when your muscles flex there. they usually wipe their fingers on a blanket when you aren't looking. it just feels good when your muscles flex plus when they have their finger in their they can reach another g spot
I care, ewwwwww....
he sounds kinda freaky if its only the second time! make him chill out a bit if you don't want it and if he doesn't then he might just be too freaky for you! n/o
sounds a little bold, and forceful, to me. He should have asked or approached more carefully. It just means someone else liked it that he tried it with and he assumed it would work on you, or he saw it in porn and assumed it works.
Yea that's what I thought too. But do most guys like this kind of thing? Is that a turn on /attractive?
I only know about one guy - me. It's definitely not something I've heard brought up amongst guys. The turn-on part is a little strange, as well. We will try/do most anything to turn you on and make you think we are the wildest stud you ever met, or we just don't give a hoot and will play around for our own entertainment/experimentation. However, my style, with a girlfriend would have been to be a lot more careful/sensitive about just diving into that area, especially with your back turned lol.
I totally agree
Well let me say that he is messed up, he probably saw it in porn but still it is not cool to try something like that unless you ask first. He was also probably trying to see what reaction you would have.
Would you enjoy doing this to a partner?
Not really no but I would probably try it once or twice but only after asking her if it were ok and not just unexpectedly jump in there. But if she liked it I would do it for her pleasure not mine.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would never attempt such a thing, especially without some kind of warning or slow approach. The poop aspect of the butthole grosses me out too.
Some girls like it. If you don't, tell him. If you do, chill out.
Ok-you didn't really answer any of my questions
I'll be more explicit. Sure, he probably likes normal sex; if he didn't he'd probably stop having it. The turn-on would be turning the girl on, assuming that's her thing. I would do it to a partner, but only if she asked first; it seems risky to spring on someone out of nowhere.
So guys assume we like their fingers in our asses. wow. I would think that it would be a turn off for a guy, but I haven't read of any guys so far who thinks its nasty caca can be on your hands eww, or maybe they just don't want to admit it I dunno. yea that was pretty brave of him just to spring it on me like that
Well -- did U cum?
he was testing ur reactions, c what ur into. lol. tell him what you like and what you don't like.
Yea you're stating the obvious
No, killy is stating the obvious, am telling you what to do. lol.
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SURPRISE BUTSEX!
yes I would like doing it but I wouldn't the second time with a girl
He insertedhis thumb and you're complaining about what?
He was testing if your reaction, that's it!
It's complelty normal and clearly you failed him! A good women would let him inserted his penis right away!
he didn't wanted to waste the sperm that fast
He saw it from watching porn. Exactly what he did to you happens in porn all the time. So I don't know why he would do this, but the origin of the idea is obvious. This action sounds risky to me. I would not do this without talking to my loved one about it FIRST!
Honestly I think it was very rude of him to do that to you without warning. I would not do this unless the girl down right ordered me to do it.
i tried it before it and love it.i mean it up 2 you if you want 2 or no.
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