Do men think saggy breasts are ugly?

[Anonymous]

Do men think saggy breasts are ugly? if you sag should you just keep your bra on even during sex?

[Anonymous]

I never had a chance. My mom was taken from me when I was 9, so she never got the chance to explain a lot of things I otherwise would have known about, cause believe me - my dad explained nothing. By the time I was 12, I hated my breasts. I could never wear strapless anything, was terrified of a wedding dress and prom dresses, terrified of having sex, and not only that, you could tell I had huge saggy breasts as a teen, even in my clothes. And I was otherwise a very, very pretty girl. But I rarely had boyfriends. And if I had sex with someone, I cannot tell you how many times it was over. No phone calls, nothing. Now I'm in my 40's and I'm in love with another man (that is not my husband - don't judge - you don't know the situation), but he's had his pick of women, and although he thinks he's in love me with also, he doesn't know. I have felt like my life was ruined all my life because of this. I wish I had married a rich man so I could've had a breast reduction or something so my self-esteem would be better. And it's not just a matter of accepting myself. They're huge, I can't even see below them, Food falls on them all the time (when I'm in clothes), and they sag almost to my belly. What did I do to deserve this? I feel like God or whoever it is out there just played a cruel trick on me by giving me a sensitive heart, but this deep insecurity that has plagued me my entire life. To make it worse, my areolas are HUGE. You can't even see the borders, they just being to blend in with the rest of my breast tissue.

[extreemator]

I cannot imagine why you feel like it. A lot of men absolutely love sagging tits. I don't know if you are good at noticing things but there were/are a lot of open mouthed saliva dropping guys looking, some would have been disgusted for some own reasons but others I said would be drooling. I myself would die for a pair of huge/medium sagging breasts.

[extreemator]

and huge areolas are also a huge turn on! I hate smallish areolas, they feel bad

[visje]

I CAN SO RELATE TO THIS. Almost every word. Especially since I lost quite a lot of weight as a student. I actually gave up on doing a Master's degree and got a job instead so I can afford a breast lift in a few months. My sex life has been pathetic and sad and the funniest part of it all is that I'm otherwise fairly attractive and get asked out a lot, I think a lot of men think I'm flirting with them as I just display my natural enthusiasm for nice conversations. Could never ever take it any further than that. Exactly, you would think that, wouldn't you 'what have I done to deserve this' in this day and age obsessed wth looks and body and attractiveness, people have absolutely no idea what a horrible setback this is. Saying 'get over this', 'if you don't like 'em get 'em removed', 'most men don't care', well, it's kinda hard not to care when you look like a 70 yo after 3 pregnancies. And surgeries are a privilege for the rich. Nothing else works, there's nothing you can do.

[rosebella6601]

I have same problem saging breast but my age was 20 I fill uncomfortable I want lift sugary but I am from Pakistan where people r conservative they think negative about it I just do sugary for my own comfartablessness but my society is very full of stupid people

[Krystal83]

I get why you feel like this. But it really is a matter of accepting yourself. I wear a size 40H bra. My boobs have sagged as long as I can remember. I was a DDD cup by the time I graduated high school. And I have huge areolas. I never even thought of them until a guy commented how he loved my huge areolas. Now I'm 40 and I've never once encountered a guy who didn't want to date or sleep with me because of my breasts. Being confident goes a long way and it's possible guys you've been intimate with who didn't want to go be intimate again picked up on your insecurity. Or they were just jerks only after one thing.

[Wendigocosmos]

@visje Men actually love saggy breasts, as they do most all breasts. But what is most important is how you feel about yourself, your confidence. I have had saggy breasts, 30K, all my life. I've never felt inferior or ashamed, I'm beautiful. What men do like us women fixated on them, not their own bodies. If you are insecure about your breasts, or body, you will be focused on that and not present in the sexual experience. That is the turn off. Embrace yourself. If someone is not interested in you, move on. Their preferences are a reflection of themselves, not you. But if you continue to worry about your breasts not living up to some metric in your head, no one will be interested in you. Not because of your breasts, but because you are occupied with yourself. How can you appreciate and enjoy another person if you're preoccupied with yourself? You can't, and men pick up in this. You've exposed how harshly you've judged yourself by saying '70 yo after 3 pregnancies '. I'm fifty and had 8 pregnancies, and my breasts look the same as they did when I was 17. I didn't get pregnant 8 times because my breasts were a turn off. Love yourself and focus on what turns you on, not what you think turns someone else on.

[Leehiya]

I've saggy breasts. Working on them in gym is a good idea. But i think before that one must accept oneself first for what they are. I absolutely loathe guys for judging women based on body types. I like you... i like you. Your tiny dick is not going to make much of a difference.

[chocolatewookie]

Personally sagginess runs in my family because of this I didn't want to take the chance so I go to the gym and exercise that area. That works great! It not only keeps sagginess away but it makes them perkier and they appear bigger! It's great!

[chloeqc]

Really?Exercising works?What exercises do you do?

[chocolatewookie]

Ummm I have no idea what its called... but its where you put your arms on the machine and it kind of moves them forward and back like opening and closing..hope that helps.

[Mendocini]

Load of crap. Sorry. I am 35 and been gym for 2 years regulary and NO for really saggy breast nothing except surgery will help. You must have small breast which were a bit saggy and you could do chest excercises and feel OK. I've lost 10 stone and no excercise helps as my boobs went from F to DD and are really saggy with excess skin.

[I_tell_you]

@Mendocini Breast sag is a one-way street just like your vision, hearing and the elasticity of your skin. You have to work on them and take care of your breasts. Exercise and breast massage do work when you are young and perky. They do delay sagging. A heathy diet, a heathy sleep schedule, moderate amount of physical activity, wearing a well-fit bra, PLUS, no excessive drinking, no smoking, no substance abuse, no contraception pills, no pregnancy, no getting old, no sag breast genes, no excessive stretching, no excessive tearing, no excessive bouncing, no excessive smooshing. If you can do all of the above, then you can maximize your chances of having perky breast forever, but it's not passive to satisfy all of them, so each term you violate, will cause your boobs to sag just a little bit, and eventually they will sag, it is just a matter of time, but it is a matter of time you can control, by controlling the above factors.

[straightman]

Personally you should keep it on until you marry a guy or you'll likely have a relationship based on just sex. That makes for an awful marriage. BUT, yes men do have likes and dislikes about breasts.

The under 18 year old that responded is a child. Men like most breasts. The most important part is the nipple, since that's what our mouth heads for.

Women are their own worst critics. Relax. If a man isn't attracted to you just because of your breasts keep looking around. You haven't found someone that really cares about you. We're dogs and like breasts big or small, perky or saggy.

[sexwiseman]

Although at first look saggy breasts are not as pretty as perky breasts, I never like it when a girl leaves her bra on, and I always take it off cause I love to play with them. If you feel insecure about your breasts, maybe you can leave your bra on, and then see what the guy does. Many girls do this, and when I ask them, 'aren't you gonna take your bra off', they all say, yea, but I don't like my breasts....and most of the times, their breasts to me are just fine, but girls are never pleased with their bodies.

[Wendigocosmos]

This is what I keep trying to tell these girls. It's their fixation on themselves, and their perceived imperfections, that is the turn off. If you're always worried about your appearance, or what someone else is thinking, you can never embrace the experience. Sex is primal, we all expose ourselves and look a mess, that's how we know we're doing it right. Too many women buy into this marketing ploy, projecting their insecurities onto the perception of men, too afraid to actually ask a man what he thinks. Or if they do, they never believe him. This is why, in my opinion, statistics state that over 70% of women never orgasm during sex.

[montey]

Do not listen to these people.

Guys do NOT like saggy breasts because if they did, women wouldn't be out here getting lifts, implants, or reductions.

Saggy boobs just aren't... cute.

[Bochcoch]

Yeah as far as I see they are. They feel better against you, much more fun to play with... Guess everyone has their favourite type of boobs

[TheDudeAbides1990]

Your not a real man. Just a kid pretending to be a man. Big saggy tits are the best

[gray_sailor]

Kinda late to the party on this one.

I am a man that actually prefers saggy breasts. I always have. Keeping your bra on during sex is a bad idea. If a woman does not trust me enough to see her naked body, we shouldn't be having sex in the first place.

Not every guy has the same taste in women as every other guy. Trying to please everyone is a fool's errand. Be confident in yourself, and be proud of what you have. Most guys will respond well to that.

[good-looking-geek]

Saggy breasts can still be fun and attractive. But there is a limit to how far they go down though. If they sag 6 inches, then that's a gray area (probably ok). But if they sag 1 foot, my enthusiasm dies.

[johnsmith2116]

Well if he's going to bed with her, chances are he already knows about the breasts. So, surely he is okay with them.

But for many guys saggy isn't attractive.

[Koldhearted]

boobs are boobs

[Scrimz21]

No men don't like saggy breasts... and no don't keep your bra on during sex, take it off. I'm being totally honest.

[gray_sailor]

Not to rain on your parade or anything, but there are FOUR guys ITT that prefer saggy boobs. Speak for your own tastes, don't make claims for all men.

[extreemator]

personaly I firmly belive that men who like small breasts and only silicone are degenerates, and I wouldn't trust them. lol

[chiefnavarro]

i think if I like you as a person ill be like huh here breast are saggy. I'm making love to your mind through your body. I'm not having just having sex with your body. I think its the mind that counts. of course if your like miss chokes on d*** there's nothing that could make up for it.

[randyandelizabath]

Yes I like saggy boobs

[Bluntandtrue]

First let me say that women who hate their breasts and hide them are a mega turn off no matter what. To be totally blunt, you don't like them then have them removed. There is no bigger turn off than a person who lies and when you go out with a man and all you want to do is hide or worse disguise what you have then you are the biggest liar.

Personally I love all boobs and my favorites are saggy empty ones. But here is the truth, boobs don't make you attractive, it is you who makes the boobs attractive. Loving what you have means you have fun with them and realise they are a part of you that makes the whole. Boobman, assman, legman, doesn't matter because in the long run it is you he likes. No one can be with a person for just one body part. That is impossible and stupid to think.

[Yothisisaaccount]

Ok I dont understand what it is with people are affraid of being honest, so here yes a girl who has saggy breast ia less attractive than a girl that have shaped boobs. Wearing bras helps than stay shaped. No one finds grandma breast more attractive than young ones. Choosing aomeone you love opinions isn't the same as a strangers.

[franka]

I think most young guys sees saggy breast more uglier than d old men

[extreemator]

yea teen boys like 15-20 may be a bit uneasy before they learn

[inkonpaper]

Saggy breasts:
1. Move around more = A+
2. Hang low = A+
3. Are a sign of maturity = A+

Saggy breasts score: A+++
I love them. Amazing.

Keep your bra on during sex?
Absolutely not. In my opinion, it's a HUGE turn on.

[Pbsway]

They are beautiful any man who wouldent want to liok and feel they would be crazy.. awsome never think its a curse its a blessing

[Anonymous]

I prefer saggy breasts naked over captive in a bra

[Anonymous]

They are not ugly, take the bra off!

[Anonymous]

Maybe I am in the minority but I PREFER saggy breasts. There is absolutely nothing more attractive to me than a natural woman with natural breasts. The only real turnoff to men (like me) are fake breasts. I would/will NEVER date or crush on a woman with fake boobs. They look horrendous and scream "Insecurity".
Just like Woman, All men are different in what they like and what fetishes they have. Just like some woman prefer toned men with a hairless body, Others prefer and more natural build or a hairy chest. What you like is what you like. Give me a nice set of heavy natural and SAGGY breasts any day of the week!!!

[Anonymous]

Saggy breasts, especially if they are large, are the greatest turn-on, as far as I'm concerned,

[Parakeeta]

Why?

[Wendigocosmos]

@Parakeeta Because they are in your face and you can play with them. They also provide warmth, feel amazing on your skin, and are an amazing alternative to a handjob.

[Anonymous]

Saggy breasts are only ugly if they get dusty through dragging along the floor.