What can I do to really WOW my guy in bed? What's your biggest fantasy?

I want to do something that is going to make my guy go CRAZY! We have experimented with a lot of things. No toys yet and we've never brought home another girl. Should I bring home a toy? Dress like a school girl, be really into role play? What is your biggest fantasy?


Most Helpful Guy

  • I recently answered a question similar to yours today. One would be to be given a B.J. while I was sleeping. (look at my profile & look under my answers that will take you to the members question & my answer along with other members answers)

    Second sure toys are great in bed. Go pick out something that you think that you would like. You can do this on line or even read about the item on line and then go to a porno video store. Now don't be embarrassed as they sell these items all the time. If you would like you can simply say that it is for a bachelorette party.

    This is my favorite FANTASY & only a FANTASY but it is R@PE. I also read here that it is a lot of peoples favorite fantasy. I'm not talking anything violent as again this is just a fantasy.

    If the both of you share this fantasy then you two decide how you would like the fantasy to start & the limits along with a safety word.

    Start with the toy(s) & then move along to another fantasy from there, like you wrote dress like a school girl. Everything is OK as long as the two of you agree. Keep that safety word in mind.


Have an opinion?

What Guys Said 2

  • Try this:

    1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

    2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

    3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

    4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

    5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

    6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

    7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

    8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

    9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ----> link

    10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

    Good luck

  • The thing I found that makes sex the best is having sex after a big fight or something really emotional - not that you have to create an artificial fight but I mean when the emotions are really high and you are really into each other like you've been through this super close experience together and you're both feeling really connected to each other at the moment, then the sex is amazing. I don't know how'd you get to that point, you'll have to know that, but that is what works for me. Just inspiring a lot of passion with the movements, like you are all into it and loving it - taking it in with a thirst and hunger, like your tearing up a delicious plate of food you've been starving for. If you can sincerely get that have sex like that, it's so intimate and mind blowing - that no outside "toy" can match that - it's internal.


What Girls Said 0

Be the first girl to share an opinion
and earn 1 more Xper point!