He fingered me and now I'm bleeding! help!

Question

my boyfriend fingered me and it kind of hurt and when I got home I realized that a little blood was coming out. is this normal? help!

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

One of three things, none of them being unusual:

- if you're a virgin, and your hymen is relatively intact, he might have torn it a bit, which will cause bleeding.

- he might have cut you with his fingernails. A guy who knows he might be stirring the honeypot should prepare by having clean, trimmed fingernails and recently-washed hands.

- he might have just been a bit rough on your internal tissues. It is not very uncommon for small amounts of blood to result, as well as some soreness.

Longshot · Accepted Answer

Probably not much to worry about unless it continues. He broke your hymen or scratched you. It should stop -- if not see your gynecologist.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

next time tell him to wait a little longer and get you more turned on physically, or use some lube. bleeding is normal if it was your first time (or close to it) but eventually it shouldn't hurt at all and if it is he's doing it wrong and you need to tell him! I thought that was just how it was supposed to be with my ex and it was miserable, I bled every time, but my current boyfriend takes the time to get me all worked up and wet so it doesn't hurt at all it feels really good.

Alanaaa · Accepted Answer

If it's like a tablespoon .. then he popped your cherry- assuming it hasn't been popped previously. If so, he just hit your cervix. Which causes a bit of pain, and a bit of blood. If it was your hymen he broke, it will hurt like a bitch for awhile.