Why does he always put his fingers in my mouth?

When we are cuddling and he's not kissing me on my mouth or during forplay, he always puts one or two finger in my mouth (mostly his thumb). I find that kinda weird, what am I supposed to do? Suck on them like a little child sucks on his thumb? And why is he doing this in the first place, what does he get out of it? I asked him why he did it once and he said something about how he likes how his fingers look big compared to my face. But I don't know this seems so weird that I think there's something else
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  • My girlfriend and I (We're lesbians) do this too. just like, when we're cuddling and aren't ready/aren't going to make out. It feels good because the hands are so sensitive. And it's fun to tease her by trailing my fingers up and down her arm, holding her hand up to my face, kissing her fingers, maybe nibbling them unexpectedly, before slipping one into my mouth and sucking gently. She loves it. It's just a thing I guess.

    I mean, it's not a hint for anything more, for us at least. We're both still virgins. I don't know, might be different for a straight couple.

  • My partner likes to stick his whole fingers in my mouth as far as he can. Sometimes he inserts two fingers as if he is fingering my mouth, and other times he likes to spread my lips apart at the corners and swirl his fingers around my tongue. Very strange, really unexpected, definitely some American Horror Story stuff, but I like it. Maybe my opinion should not be heard. I'm just really open-minded. Also together for seven years.

  • it a subtle hint he wants a blow job, if men do that what is a woman tell wen she want oral,does anyone know,

    • If you want to dominate a little- gently push his head down there or grab a handful of his hair. Do it gently. Some guys have higher pain tolerance than others, while others are complete pansies. It is nice to do this while he is down there. If he likes being dominant (and you're into it), beg him. He will dig it if you do. If you aren't sure-try it. You have plenty of time to figure each other out, and a few blunders are always bound to come across. Just learn to laugh them off and move on to the good stuff.

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  • I would say I don't quite get that fetish either but I could understand why another guy would want to do it. You have to remember that the most sensitive part of the body (besides the obvious) are your finger tips. They have the most sensory perception of all your other senses, so sucking on them would be very stimulating.

    I haven't ever had a girl suck on my fingers before (not that the idea intrigues me either) but that is my guess as to why your guys enjoys it when you do it for him.

    • I didn't know they were the most sensetive body parts, I thought it would ears, armpits or even belly

    • Learn something new everyday ^_^

  • As a guy I can say it feels amazing when my girl sucks my fingers. It can almost be as good as a bj if it's done right.

    He's doing it because it feels good and looks sexy.

    • as good as a blowjob, really? How does it look sexy? I think it looks rather stupid

    • Think about it. Fingers have A LOT of nerve endings.

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  • Sweetheart, get a clue. He wants more and more enthusiastic head. He loves getting oral sex.

    • why doesn't he just say that then?

    • That's a very complicated question. Fellatio is a complex thing. It has a dominant/submissive thing to it and that may be why he's reluctant. You're going down on him and that's great but he may feel like it's a little degrading despite how much he likes it. I disagree with that assessment but it's not unusual. Next time he sticks his fingers in your mouth, just look at him with your best bedroom eyes and say something like, "If I'm gonna have something in my mouth besides your tongue..."

  • your mouth is soft and moist...

  • I find it hot when I do that when I'm having sex with a girl. Cause I can imagine her giving me a blowjob. Just makes her look more seductive. Something about it hard to explain. More a mental thing for me I guess.

  • It's hot. Like picturing a blowjob.

  • My boyfriend does this a lot. I guess you have to consider how it's being done. But I know for him it is definitely a dominant thing. He's taking control. I think it's really sexy :)

  • Me as a boy I honestly can't tell you a good answer simply because i dont know why i do it lol. I just kinda do

  • Bite him .

    • LOL :D

    • HAHAHAHAHH!:)

    • best answer here