Should I just wait longer or keep trying to persuade her to let me go down on her?

[spartom]

My girlfriend doesn't like the idea of me going down on her. The first time I was gonna she said no it's sick and wrong! I managed to explain kinda that all guys like it and you might think it's disgusting but it looks and feels nice and that's why guys watch lesbian porn lol and she was like no I don't care it's sick to me. I have never gone down on a girl before and she has never had it done. She is the first girl I ever fingered and I was the first to finger her (including herself) and the second time I did it I was curious and didn't know what she thought about it before and licked my finger afterwards and it was just tasteless and scentless tbh (oh yeah it was like a day before her period and she gets really horny lol) and then another time I did it and it tasted kinda sweet but not strong at all but thicker kinda layer if you know what I mean and last time we got "intimate" I asked should I try it and went down and got close and she was like no and I said but I know you'll like it, just relax and then she put her head back and closed her eyes and then I got down and I had fingered her a while before this and tasted it and it was nice lol but when I went down this time I got like about a foot away from her you know what and the smell almost knocked me out so I just made and excuse like ok if you feel that way I won't and then just fingered her again but tbh I was as far from it as possible with my nose cos I was gonna chuck up really! Do you think this was just an od day or maybe she hadn't showered yet that day or was hot and sweat makes down there smell or what cos I wanna please her and have heard that girls love oral so want to be able to give her that pleasure but want to know does it always smell that bad? I have smelt my fingers after each time I fingered her and it was fine even if a little weird but never like ugh or anything. Please help me, I just wanna make her happy and really wanna try this. Should I keep trying to persuade her to let me go down on her or should I just wait for longer like after we start having sex or something?

[Anonymous]

it sounds like your forcing it on her, if she wants you to go down on her, she would ask, or if you went to go down on her, she wouldn't complain, if she doesn't like the idea of it, you might as well leave it, even if you want to go down on her, this might seem rude, but its not all about you, its about the both of you, you just have to compromise, why don't you just ask her to think about it, and let you know if she would like you to do it.

and about the smell, I really don't know, the girls I have gone down on havnt smelt unpleasent as such.

[spartom]

No she knows I'm not forcing cos I asked and the first time I made sure I asked and she knew what I was doing and everything and when she relaxed I thought it was a go ahead signal. I know its for both of us and I explained it's something I know she'll like and she's like unsure so thought maybe just try cos I just wanna please her. This question was mostly about the smell thing tbh, maybe girls can help with that though, or someone with more experience than under 18s no offense but anon = lie

[Opinion Owner]

Im not lyin, and my account name is "rrrob" happy?

[Afrodite101]

you can't rush this stuff, it used to be uncomfortable with it but my Boyfriend does it and I totally love it now. So when the smell knocked you out, and you made the excuse was she ready to be eatten out? I say just keep playing around and it will happen. I'm not to sure about the smell you have to be careful that your hands are clean cause that can cause irritation to us and make it uncomfortable.

[spartom]

Could it just be like an off day or somethin cos she had no smell the previous 3 times and lol tasted nice too. the 2nd time was just before she was gonna have her period, so can that have anythin to do with it? she was really horny then too lol and I always wash my hands and everythin if I think we might be about to go that far cos that's probs the worst thing I could do I think

[checkit88]

she probably just hadn't showed that day, it's really common. You probably caught her by surprise. if you ever let her know you found it gross, she'll be self conscious forever. Just try again when you think she's showered.

[Botosaui617]

why go down on her? ur luckly ur chick is like dat