Guys: is lingerie worth the investment?

For me I feel like the concept of buying lingerie is like buying REALLY expensive wrapping paper. That is impossible for some people to take off. Do you think that seeing your girlfriend or woman you're f***ing in lingerie is really worth the money she's spending? if so, what type? from bra+panties that actually match to corset/neglige/garters etc...
No, it's dark and it's coming off anyway why bother?
Vote A
Yes, it's sexy and definitely worth the money
Vote B
I'm a girl and curious to see the answer
Vote C
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well... When I buy it, its for me to wear. I don't buy the really expensive stuff or nothing, but when I buy it its to make me feel sexy. So, it was to improve *my* sexual experience, by and large, before theirs, because no one I've been with has ever had a particular liking for it - although, that's more because 'boys in lingerine' is a bit of a niche fetish, more than it not doing anything for other people. For some girl, it might work out as having a good effect on them both, so it'd be even more worth the money. Like, two for one.

  • You don't need lingerie to attract a guy your age. Don't bother.

    That's something you buy when you're like 39 years old and your man's sex drive is decreasing. It spices things up when your minds are in a lull.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Do you really want to spend a lot of money on fancy lingerie just so some horny guy can rip it off without a second look? As long as it's clean it doesn't really matter. I almost always manage to get caught off guard and not match my lingerie, and end up in front of a guy in mismatched panties and a bra...he never seems to give a damn.

    • thats because when it's mismatched it means it wasn't planned but rather spontaneous which makes it all the more exciting

    • I'm glad other people agree with me. My best friend's annoying girlfriend keeps bringing up her "extensive lingerie collection" that she paid for with her daddy's credit card and I can't help but think of all the other things she should be spending all that money on.

    • Yeah that's just going overboard. Sure, maybe own a couple matching sets of super sexy lingerie for special occasions, but it's not necessary ALL the time. It's what happens when the lingerie comes off that's the fun part anyway!

  • I think it depends on the guy I was with one guy who did not want to take it off me and would have sex with me with it on. Another guy took it off almost instantly so I say buy it if you feel sexy in it or you are in a long term relationship with a guy who loves it otherwise you may be wasting your money because it is so expensive.

  • "C" is the most popular answer so far, lol!

    My ex would say "A" if that helps.

    I would say "B" -- if it makes YOU feel sexy and happy, it's worth the investment. When you feel sexy, you give off a sexy/attractive vibe and naturally look more appealing to others.

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  • Most of it doesn't do all that much for me; I like simpler stuff personally.

    BUT... if SHE likes it and it makes her feel sexy and special, then, sure, I'll buy it happily. Because a gift for her is about HER, not about me. Many of the things that I like wouldn't do much for her, but she's probably get them for me anyway because she knows it would make me happy. Why wouldn't I do the same?

    Now, if she NEVER wore them, then, no, I wouldn't get them. I work hard to make my gifts something that she will like, use, and appreciate.

  • It is totally worth it...makes guy so much hornier. Just a tip, it makes men so horney that they will buy it for you! Just tell your man you've seen some sexy lingerie and you'll be willing to wear it if he picks it up for you. Most men will do it, plus you get to keep it afterward and can use it with other guys.. Good luck

    • my boyfriend doesn't buy me sh*t :(

    • Go find yourself a new man...i'm cheap, but I wasn't cheap when it came to buying my ex items that made my sex life better. Honestly, get yourself a little candy on the side, and get him to buy you lingerie. I don't mean to corrupt you, but I'm doing it any way..lol

    • I don't have a boyfriend so he can buy me stuff...thats why I have a job.

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  • i like to wear it as it does make you feel more sexy. my boyfriend would just like plain white undie set, but I like a bit of glamour to my dull life,lol so I think it what you feel like,and what I buy is worth th money,

  • Ye lingerie is nice. I like stalkings and thongs and stuff. I bought my girlfriend some as a gift when I saw them on offer at the mall.

  • She basically stopped wearing it, so I stopped buying it. If she wore it more, I'd buy more. I bought a few expensive pieces years ago - la perla, etc. It is really nice.

  • well it can depend on the lingerie. Certain kinds can make certain girls sexy as hell, others it won't look good.

    I think there are other ways a girl can look so sexy. I always loved it how girls wear nothing but a normal t-shirt and booty shorts. *drools* honestly, I know I'm not just speaking for myself here but I can be turned on very easily (depending on the girl).

    personally invisible monster, I can see you looking good in thick black framed glasses and red booty shorts. You look like the type that can pull the "sexy nerd" really well (no offense)

  • I love lingerie. I'm a straight guy and I wear it a lot. Idc what others think. Panties are the best.

  • Who doesn't like unwrapping gifts?

  • hell no, I don't think it's worth it. if I was attracted enough to a girl to be with her I sure as hell wouldn't/don't care about her choice of underwear

  • I think for some women it can be. I kind of stop wearing things after a while though.

  • it's fun while it lasted