Sounds like you are just 'going through the motions' doing the same old thing. Does she maybe want something new, different, and something that shows her that YOU CARE, and are TRYING?
It isn't about you, when you are LOVING a woman. She usually doesn't like the things she does for you, but she does, but how many guys really put any effort into really pleasing your girl?
Maybe just get her a 'Spa Day' gift to get totally pampered and get all the things that they love done, a massage, a manicure/pedicure, facial, and so on. Then actually cook something that she loves, you, yourself, with her favorite wine (Do you know what she loves, or her favorite wine?)
Make it a special night, JUST ABOUT HER, and do EVERYTHING you can, for her! Yeah, a sensual bath, together, if she likes that, or just giving her that special joy that she wants, but is unsure of, if she likes.
Don't expect to have sex, but just make it a special time, for her, and just sleep together, holding her close.
There are so many things that we, as guys forget, or ignore, that mean so much to women.
Focusing on sex, or wetness, isn't any solution. There is something TOTALLY unrelated to sex, that is inhibiting your joy. Maybe your expectations of her 'wetness' are not appropriate for her? Maybe she has changed, and that isn't 'HER' anymore.
It's all communication, trust, and intimacy. Sometimes you need to remember that she needs things from you, too, and they aren't what you might expect!
As you get older, you realize that the RELATIONSHIP is more important than sex. Sometimes a good dinner, and a good wine, shared, together, is better!0 0 0 0You are making this into a big deal. Don't obsess on her natural wetness. Replace it. When my lover needs help, I use plenty of cocoa butter lotion. It is slick, stays wet and is unobtrusive in oral sex. Because it is water-based. It is refreshingly cooling and mixes with her fluid which eventially comes.
1 0 1 1coco butter good tip
do you use it when she isn't able to get wet enough to have sex or when she's not getting wet from foreplay?
they do flovored lubes now also incase you wanted to wet her with your mouth,
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hm... maybe you should have her drink more water before sex? Like.. lots of it.
Although she might generally be drinking enough water, its possible that she's grown a little less sensitive somehow. With a little bit of the feeling to pee it would probably help her be more sensitive.
at least that's what google says ><0 0 0 0just dnt make big deal from it, use lube in your fore play that way it part of it, some women are like that doesn't mean they are not turned on. or she don't like u, she can't help it, it her body that doin it,
0 0 0 0i know she can't help it. we having sex for over 6 months and only recently has this been happening. And its not the wetness that makes me not think she's not turned on its the fact that her clits not errect but I'm not a girl so I don't know if you can still be turned on without your clit being errect
yeah some just go red not all stick out, I dnt think mine does and if it does it not by much,
yea I know but her does stick out more when she's turned on. that's the main reason why I think she isn't turned on its not so much the wetness
I have these problems sometimes (not often) and for me nothing is that sensitive unless I'm wet. Try some lube? Try something new with her?
1 0 0 0any ideas for trying somethan new?
Slap her ass, get a little forceful with her, roleplay, initiate in places other than the bedroom. The list goes on get creative!
tried what you said and it worked
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2 0She may be stressed out and it's affecting her sex drive. You can also try lube, don't take it personally sometimes we can't control what our bodies can and can't do :(
0 0 0 020 minutes of foreplay is not a lot for a girl. If you've been together a long time, things could be getting monotonous. Try something new, change it up a little, try a little longer foreplay. If all else fails...LUBE.
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