Sex is an important aspect of any relationship when you are an adult. It just is. It's a natural step when you're with someone that you love and who loves you. It depends on your relationship and how you feel about things. There is unfortunately no one size fits all equation for stuff like this.
I usually try wait around 4 or 5 months, I've also only had 2 serious, commited relationships. I want to make sure that the guy is with me for me and not the sex. Of course I've had a few of those flings where you just frivilously had sex with someone you weren't in love with (like someone you were "casually dating") right away, but it wasn't nearly as satisfying as doing it with someone who you know cares about you. I prefer to have sex with someone that I can be completely honest with and who I know cares about my satisfaction.
I guess my bottom line is, you should wait until you feel comfortable enough with yourself and the guy to be competely honest. Just sayin.0 0 0 0wait so you give it up to other guys fast, and make guys that like you wait. do you not see how retarded that is
not only retarded but extremely disrespectful to those guys
well men sleep around too and if they are into the girl they focus on other things besides just trying to have sex right away but if it is just a fling the only goal is sex, she makes sense to me
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A good point in the relationship to sleep with each other corresponds to the time after you start considering bringing that up, and thinking how you should go about doing that. Ironically, this is equivalent to saying "when it feels right", which I know you don't want to hear.
There isn't really a long wait for this. I mean, if I'm in a serious relationship, I wouldn't just pack up and leave just because she is a virgin and wants to wait. It's fine.
However, if we're not that committed, and are just "having fun", then I might consider more than a couple of months to be a long wait.0 0 0 01. I like to have sex early in a relationship, but I'm willing to wait.
2. I think if you want the relationship to be serious make them wait at least 6 months
3. 3 months
4. When you're a teen it is. But when you want a long-term committed relationship, it's not. Not to say that sex isn't important, but it's not number 1.
5. Absolutely
6. I'd wait until they were ready if I really liked them0 0 0 0Yeah exactly. The idea that he thinks it's such a high percentage kind of shows me that he's immature and not in the same mindset as I am, that he prioritizes sex over anything else, that's good for flings not serious relationship. I mean, neither of us are teenagers. Nor is he anyone I want to date. I just was a bit surprised that someone in his late 20s still thinks a relationship is primarily about sex.
Well, sex is really important. But it shouldn't be #1, especially at his age!
You can't rank things in importance or give them percentages. If your partner is a meth addict, not being a meth addict is like 90% of the relationship. If you are your married and your partner spends 10k a month on credit cards, being financially responsible is 90% of the relationship, and if your sex life vanishes, sex is 90% of the relationship. When things are good, everything seems good and in harmony. Sex is certainly a 'big' enough thing to dominate the relationship if its an issue.
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0 1Well I'd be patient and would respect the fact of her not wanting to at that time. sex isn't what makes a. relationship it is the two individuals who make the relationship. sex is one. of the ways that. couples who love each other want to express their love for. one another
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